Delayed Reaction
Dennis Friedman | May 15, 2024
IF YOU’VE READ MY articles, you know I don’t respond to readers’ comments very often. It’s not because I’m quiet or shy. Rather, it’s because I like to be thoughtful in my responses, rather than firing off a quick one- or two-sentence answer in the comments section. That brings me to four comments that I’ve found myself pondering, often months or even years after the article appeared. Here’s my belated response to each. Trading up. I wrote an article where I mentioned that we own a 2007 Honda Fit. One reader thought we should get a newer car, so we have the latest safety technology to protect us from aggressive drivers. “If not for yourself, get a newer car to protect your wife,” the commenter said. When we start taking some cross-country road trips, we’d like to buy a newer car with the latest safety features. In fact, our current budget calls for us to purchase a new vehicle this year. But I don’t think that’s going to happen because the Honda Fit is running well, and we don’t drive it very much. Indeed, last year, the car was driven just 545 miles. It’s well maintained and it’s only used for running errands, so we never take it very far from the house. Still, there will be a time when we’ll need another car, and one with the latest safety technology would be a good idea. Maybe the biggest reason I’m putting off buying a newer car is because I’ve had two cars stolen. They were both found, but one had been set on fire and the other was missing most of its parts. The more traumatic theft happened in the early 1970s, when I was 20 years old. I’d bought a Volkswagen Super Beetle and had it for just…
Read more » Retirement Begins Long Before You Retire
Dennis Friedman | Sep 15, 2025
Including my time delivering newspapers, I’ve had a total of ten different employers in my life. Some jobs were more memorable than others. One of my early roles was at a company that created merchandise catalogs for department stores. I was twenty—shy, insecure, and working part-time while attending college. I mostly did the tasks no one else wanted: vacuuming, taking out the trash, cleaning the bathrooms. Yet, two women at that company saw potential in me that I couldn’t yet see in myself. One was Leni, the owner. She encouraged me to switch my major from history to business and promised that if I earned a business degree, she would make me her right-hand person. The other was Jodi, my age, who worked on staging photo shoots—and sometimes modeled herself. Fred from shipping insisted she liked me, but I never had the courage to find out. I never took Leni up on her offer. Perhaps it was because her son, who also worked there, didn’t like me. Or maybe I simply didn’t believe in myself. As for Jodi, I never asked her out. I couldn’t imagine someone like her being interested in a guy who cleaned toilets and had no plan for his life. My shyness held me back, too. These days, I’m no longer that shy, self-doubting kid. I tend to speak my mind—which brings me to retirement. Looking back, I realize that the habits I struggled with in my early jobs—self-doubt, hesitation, and risk avoidance—can have real consequences later in life, especially as we approach retirement. Some of what I’m about to say might be uncomfortable, but it’s important. Here are three ways people sabotage their own retirement: 1. Neglecting our health On a seven-hour flight to Amsterdam, the man next to me drank two regular Cokes, a…
Read more » A Fine Example
Dennis Friedman | Jun 20, 2019
MY MOTHER IS 95 years old and in fairly good shape for her age. Yes, she repeats herself quite often. When she does, I tend to let it go in one ear and out the other. When she talks about my father, however, I listen very closely. One day, as I was backing the car out of the garage, she looked at all the cabinets my father built and said for the umpteenth time, “Sam was a smart man. Look at all the things he designed and built.” My father was one of the wisest men I’ve ever known. He was a machinist by trade. But he was very knowledgeable about life in general, including personal finance. I still remember something he said to me when I was young: "It's not how much money you make that’s important. It's what you do with your money that’s important." One day, I asked my father when would be a good time to invest some extra money I received from my employer. He answered “yesterday”—a reminder of the importance of investing early. He never tried to time the stock market or game the system in other ways. He was a meat-and-potatoes kind of investor. Just invest your money in a low-cost diversified fund and watch it grow. Today, my mother is still living off the money that her and my father invested. Isn’t that proof that you don’t have to reinvent the wheel when it comes to investing? Not only did I learn the basic principles about investing from my father, but also he instilled in me a work ethic that propelled me through my life. When I was a teenager, I used to watch him get up early to go to work and come home late in the evening. He sometimes did this six days…
Read more » Market Turmoil
Dennis Friedman | Apr 7, 2025
I spend a lot of my free time reading, especially newspapers, which may seem odd to you given the dramatic drop in newspaper subscriptions over the years. I subscribe to three digital newspapers, and their breaking news alerts—which find their way into my email account—keep me busy. Lately, I’ve been bombarded with news about tariffs and the recent stock market decline. I have no idea how long this economic turmoil will last, and from what I’ve read, neither does anyone else. But here are three observations from the news that have caught my attention: Don’t Panic: Ron Lieber points out in his New York Times article that the time to panic about how the new tariff policy will affect prices and the stock market might be when Costco raises the price of its $1.50 hot dog-and-soda combo. The price hasn’t risen since 1985, and Costco’s chief financial officer has suggested they will never raise it. It Might Take a While: Edward Yardeni, President of Yardeni Research and successful at picking market bottoms, said that this usually happens after the Federal Reserve has taken action. But Jerome Powell, the Fed chair, has made it clear the central bank won’t intervene anytime soon until it understands the tariffs' effects on the economy. Don’t Miss Out: Diane Harris gives these eye-popping statistics in her column: “If you missed the 10 best days over the 20 years from 2005 to 2024, you would have reduced your returns by more than 40 percent, according to J.P. Morgan; If you missed 30 of the best days out of the roughly 5,000 trading days during that period, you’d have lost money, after inflation." Maybe the takeaway from these comments is that it’s best to sit tight and not panic. It might take a while for the stock…
Read more » Lessons I’ve Learned
Dennis Friedman | Feb 5, 2024
I DIDN'T ALWAYS LIKE my retirement. After I quit my full-time job, I briefly went to work for another aerospace company. It seemed like the perfect arrangement for a retiree: just 16 hours a week, with the luxury of setting my own schedule. But it was the same old pressure cooker environment that I’d wanted to get away from. Although I was working fewer hours, it didn’t feel like I was retired. Instead, it felt like the same old grind. That’s when I realized a successful retirement was less about whether you worked or not, and more about doing things you enjoy. If I’d liked that part-time job, perhaps I would have felt like other folks, who call themselves retired and yet continue to work. That was a key lesson I learned early in retirement. Here are four other important lessons I’ve learned in the years since: 1. Staying independent. In California, if you’re age 70 or older, you have to pass a written test to renew your driver’s license. Many seniors dread the test. When my mother took it, there were 30 questions and you can only miss three. I was so proud of my mother, who at age 92 passed on her first try. My mother was a good driver in her later years. She had no physical or mental ailments that would keep her from driving. She valued her independence, and loved driving to her local grocery store or a nearby restaurant. Except I made one big mistake. After I retired and started spending more time with my mother, I drove her everywhere she wanted to go. By the time it dawned on me that I should let her drive to keep her driving skills sharp, it was too late. She no longer felt comfortable behind the…
Read more » Changing My Mind
Dennis Friedman | Jun 19, 2020
THIS PANDEMIC HAS changed the way we live: Many people are physically distancing themselves, washing their hands more often and wearing a mask when they’re around others. But it’s also changed how I think about money—in six ways: 1. Emergency savings. Before the pandemic, I always thought a cash emergency fund equal to six months’ living expenses would be sufficient. Not anymore. The massive economic shutdown has led to millions of unemployed Americans—and it will take longer than six months for many of these folks to find work again. The implication: Perhaps we need not six months of emergency money, but one to three years of living expenses in a high-yield savings account or a short-term bond fund. 2. Bonds for safety. With yields so low, many people are again questioning bonds’ value as an asset class. Yes, we won’t earn much income from bonds in today’s environment. But their worth is in the safety they offer in difficult times. We should view purchasing high-quality bonds in the same way we view a homeowner’s insurance policy. Both will protect us from catastrophic events. Just like an insurance policy, the true value of bonds isn’t recognized until a crisis hits. Both the Great Recession and this year’s bear market has shown that U.S. government bonds perform well during economic calamity and can add stability to an investment portfolio. 3. Wall Street isn’t Main Street. During this pandemic, Wall Street-traded large corporations are faring much better than Main Street’s independent small businesses. The S&P 500 is down just 3.6% in 2020 because investors feel big companies will quickly recover. In fact, large firms like Netflix, Amazon and Clorox are experiencing rising sales during the pandemic. Meanwhile, there are thousands of small businesses in survival mode. They don’t have the financial resources of large…
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- Stay invested in VTSAX/VTI.
- Diversify to something like 60/40.
- Annuitize some or all of the portfolio.
- Buy an immediate annuity—or another annuity product.
- Or decide you don't need an annuity at all.
And you can make that decision based on your actual circumstances at 65: Social Security, other assets, health, spending needs, whether you're still working, risk tolerance, longevity expectations and desire to leave money to heirs. As for the $5,500/month withdrawal, I don't think "8.6%" tells the whole story. The portfolio doesn't have to earn 8.6% and preserve the $768K. It can consume principal. As an illustration, using long-term historical average returns:- A 100%-stock portfolio could still have substantial assets after 20 years of $66K annual withdrawals and, under a simple constant-return illustration, could have significant assets remaining even at 100.
- A 60/40 portfolio produces a less favorable result but, under those assumptions, could still last into the late 90s.
Those aren't forecasts—sequence-of-returns risk could produce a much worse result. But again, the 65-year-old gets to assess that risk at 65, rather than having the 45-year-old make the decision for him. And if the portfolio does well, the retiree gets something the pure-life annuity doesn't provide: remaining capital and potential money for heirs. My question is why voluntarily give up the flexibility of $100K at age 45 when you can preserve the option to buy that insurance at 65—or later—when you actually know whether you need it. The annuity buys certainty of a specific outcome. The investment preserves optionality and the potential for growth. I'd rather preserve the optionality and only buy the certainty later if I feel I need it. In my case, I don't see that day coming, so I'm glad I deflected all those annuity sales pitches years ago."Roth Conversions and Taxes
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