The Greater Good
David Gartland | Aug 27, 2024
ANY BABY BOOMER WHO grew up around New York City is probably familiar with the name Robert Moses. He was the city planner who wielded enormous power over the development of New York from the 1920s to the 1960s. Having grown up on Long Island, I saw his work firsthand in two main highways, the Long Island Expressway and the Northern State Parkway. They were designed to appear park-like, with arched bridges, wide grass run-offs and trees alongside the entire route. Then there’s Jones Beach State Park, another Moses project. Alongside wide expanses of sandy beach, there are swimming pools, a two-mile-long boardwalk, refreshment stands and enormous parking lots. I’m among the estimated six million people who visit the park each year. My wedding reception was held at a Jones Beach restaurant. Moses couldn’t stop the Brooklyn Dodgers from moving to Los Angeles, or the New York Giants going to San Francisco. He did, however, build Shea Stadium on the World’s Fair grounds in Flushing, Queens, to house the New York Mets, a recent expansion team. Moses’s contributions to the New York region are sweeping—and controversial. He bulldozed neighborhoods to make way for great highways and towering bridges. Few had the power to stand up to his far-reaching plans. I remember the expression used to justify his decisions: “the greater good.” When you cross the George Washington Bridge into New York City, most of the traffic flows onto the Cross Bronx Expressway. You’ve probably been stuck on the Cross Bronx because its width is no match for the volume of traffic it now gets. As the name implies, the expressway cuts right through the Bronx. In building the road, Moses leveled many old neighborhoods, sending the South Bronx into steep decline. Before, neighbors talked and played along the avenues. After,…
Read more » Aiming High
David Gartland | Mar 7, 2024
MY WIFE NEEDED KNEE replacement surgery a few years ago. Her health plan, which was provided through the school district where she worked, was a preferred provider organization with a large network of doctors. After some research, my wife decided she wanted her operation done at New York City’s Hospital for Special Surgery. I love hearing about people's lives. I’ve long read biographies to learn how others gained their fame or fortune, hoping for pointers that would help me with my own life. I also pepper people with questions about their background. When we met my wife’s surgeon, I knew he’d graduated from Princeton University, which is near where we live. But I wanted to know more. I asked him what his major was. When I found out, I was surprised. “Art history? That’s a big leap to orthopedic surgery.” “My father knew that I’d have to work hard in medical school, so he wanted me to enjoy my undergraduate years.” “Did you know where you were going to med school?” I asked. The surgeon’s response: His father had graduated from Columbia University’s medical school, and he’d make sure his son got in. Early in my career, a manager once told me that “rank has privileges.” The rich have always enjoyed benefits that elude others. Clearly, my wife’s surgeon was part of the 1%, getting the benefit of an Ivy League education, plus guaranteed entrance to medical school. It must be nice. Knowing what the 1% have can either inspire us or defeat us. In his book The Magic of Thinking Big, David J. Schwartz makes the argument that the higher you aim, the higher your final landing spot will be. I’ve always wanted to be rich. Did I get it all? No. But my lofty goal meant I probably…
Read more » Losing the Keys
David Gartland | Dec 21, 2023
MY MOTHER AND MY future mother-in-law met at a funeral 37 years ago. They started discussing their respective families. It was during that conversation that they realized they each had an unmarried child, and they decided it would be nice if their two children got together. Thus, on that fatal day, my life was changed forever. One of the stories I heard early on about my mother-in-law was how she lost a house to foreclosure. My father-in-law diligently handed over his paycheck to my mother-in-law every payday. My mother-in-law was the one responsible for paying the bills. One day, when my future wife was six years old, she walked home from school to find a “for sale” sign on the front lawn. The doors were locked and no one was home. My wife freaked. She thought her mother, father, older brother and younger sister had left, and forgotten to take her. She started crying and began walking to her uncle’s house down the street. At about this time, her father was driving up the block and stopped to find out why she was crying. When he got to their house and saw the sign, it was his turn to freak out. My in-laws were both born on 116th Street in Manhattan, just south of Harlem, to immigrant parents. My father-in-law was Italian. My mother-in-law was Chilean. They lived in separate apartment buildings. As my mother-in-law described it, “In the neighborhood, everyone was poor, but we were all equally poor, so we didn’t consider ourselves poor. We were just like everyone else." After serving in World War II, my father-in-law—like many GIs—wanted a better life. He got a job working in the aircraft industry building airplanes. He met a girl from the neighborhood and got married. They started a family and…
Read more » Why We Spend
David Gartland | Feb 29, 2024
PAUL NEWMAN WAS BEST known as an actor, but he was also passionate about auto racing. He took his hobby seriously, improved his driving skills and won many races, including on his “home track” at Lime Rock, Connecticut. His wife, actress Joanne Woodward, supported her husband’s auto racing career, but also worried about him. She bought him a Rolex watch to wear when he raced. To personalize the gift, she had an inscription added to the back. It read: “Drive Carefully, Me.” Photographs show that Newman did indeed wear the watch when racing. In 2017, the watch—which Newman had given to his daughter's onetime boyfriend—was auctioned off for charity, and sold for $17.8 million. It’s a watch. It will not be used by the buyer to tell time, which is the purpose of a watch. It will likely sit on a shelf. The buyer will probably show it off to his friends, bragging that he paid almost $18 million. The more money folks have, the more they can spend. But $17.8 million for a watch? How much money would you need socked away to spend $17.8 million on a watch without flinching? I imagine you’d need at least $100 million, and probably much more. Imagine telling your wife, “Honey, I'm going out to buy a watch today.” “That’s nice, dear,” she says. “How much are you going to spend?” “$18 million,” you reply nonchalantly. She smiles, “Have fun.” What each of us buys depends upon our needs, values and ego. For the very rich, I think their ego probably drives the vast majority of their purchases. When you're sitting around the country club having your cigar and scotch, you need something to talk about. Why not tell them how much money you were able to spend at a charity auction?…
Read more » My Unemployed Life
David Gartland | Oct 19, 2023
I HAVE BEEN FIRED, downsized, restructured and laid off 10 times in my life. The first time was at age 16, when I worked for a McDonald's-like hamburger joint, and the last time was shortly before I turned 70, when I was working for an insurance company as the manager of regulatory compliance. I can't blame this on discrimination. I’m a white Christian male, five feet 10 inches tall, college educated, and of sound mind and body, so there are no obvious reasons for my lack of consistent employment. Instead, it seems my employers simply didn’t like or need me. My goal in life has been to be rich. I will hold off providing reasons for choosing this goal, but needless to say it was my goal. It’s this goal that has provided me with the fuel to keep going after every interruption in my employed life. I never let my frustrations after each termination prevent me from picking myself up, dusting myself off and moving on to the next job. This process wasn’t always easy, but it’s what I did to keep going. I’m telling my tale less to benefit HumbleDollar’s readers directly, many of whom are retired, but rather in case their children or grandchildren encounter similar misfortunes in their life. If you have family members who lose their job, you might suggest my strategy for not getting too discouraged. One of the best pieces of advice that I got in my life came from a guy I worked with, Steve Devito. Upon hearing me complain one day about some negative situation at work, Steve said to me, “Dave, all you can do is keep on keeping on.” That sage advice hasn’t just stayed with me throughout my career. It’s also influenced my approach to life in…
Read more » Three’s Company
David Gartland | Dec 24, 2024
I SPENT MANY HOURS reading articles and books about retirement before I actually retired. I knew I’d retire eventually because of how often I found myself out of work. Studying retirement became one more thing I needed to do so I could be successful. Under the category of retirement, grandparenting was a frequent subject. This is understandable since many retirees are or soon become grandparents. My situation is different. My special-needs son will not get married or have kids. My son is not financially self-sufficient, and so is unlikely to be able to support a wife and children. I see my future as three’s company. My son will continue to live with my wife and me until we die or we need to move into an assisted living facility. We’re blessed to have a child who is self-sufficient, for the most part, with personal maintenance. He can take a shower by himself. He can make his own breakfast, lunch and dinner, too, so long as it involves opening a package, and then either eating the meal directly or first heating it in the microwave. Anything more and he needs to wait for his mother, since his father is no more skilled at cooking than he is. He’s self-sufficient as long as someone will do his laundry and any cooking. And that someone would be either his mother or me. I play tag-team with my wife. During the months that she was called upon to take care of her dying parents, I stayed with my son while she went to South Carolina and Long Island, New York. When I wanted to go on a solo road trip, she stayed with our son. While our day-to-day activities resemble a house with three roommates, we don’t feel comfortable leaving my son alone in…
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