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Jonathan’s Advice for 2026 Graduates

"11 more to come. All scheduled by Jonathan himself!"
- Bogdan Sheremeta
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Saving for Grandchildren

OUR FIRST GRANDCHILD recently arrived, which naturally has us thinking about the smartest ways to build a strong financial foundation for her future. In 2019, I wrote Take a Break, which outlined saving strategies on behalf of children. Since then, the landscape has changed with the introduction of Trump accounts and Roth-conversion pathways for 529 accounts.  Families have four tax-advantaged savings approaches on behalf of young children plus the Roth IRA option once the child has earned income – 529 education savings account, a Uniform Gift to Minor (UGM) custodial account, a Coverdell account, and the new Trump account. Each option offers a different mix of tax benefits, contribution requirements and withdrawal rules. 529 Accounts Pros
  • Tax-free growth when used for qualified education expenses
  • High gift-tax contribution limits: $19K per contributor per year (indexed)
  • New ability to convert up to $35K into a Roth IRA for the beneficiary
Cons
  • Relatively complex with penalties and taxes on non-qualified withdrawals
  • Limited, state-approved investment options
  • Risk of underutilization if the child does not pursue qualifying education
Caveats
  • Technology and AI could significantly reduce education’s cost structure in the future
  • Roth conversions are capped at $35K lifetime
  • The 529 must be open 15 years, and contributions must age 5 years before conversion
  • Conversions require the beneficiary to have earned income (i.e. they could Roth anyway)
  • Annual Roth contribution limits still apply (e.g., $7.5K in 2026), so completing the full $35K conversion would take five years
UGM Custodial Accounts Pros
  • Brokerage account where up to $2.7K of unearned income can be tax-free each year
  • High gift-tax contribution limits: $19K per contributor per year (indexed)
  • Broad investment flexibility — stocks, bonds, funds, etc.
  • Few restrictions on how funds may be used for the child’s benefit
  • Potential for low taxes on capital gains, but subject to marginal “kiddie tax” at parent’s rates until tax-independency or age 24 
Cons
  • Higher income or capital gains could trigger the kiddie tax at the parents’ marginal rate
  • Assets count as the child’s for financial-aid purposes
Caveats
  • Custodians have some ability to spend down the account for legitimate child expenses if the child is a wild-child in the later teen years
Coverdell Accounts Pros
  • Tax-free growth for qualified education expenses
  • More flexible investment choices than most 529 plans
Cons
  • Low contribution limit: $2K per year plus income limits restrict who can contribute
  • Essentially irrelevant today given the expanded options within 529 plans
Trump Accounts Pros
  • $1K government seed deposit for children born 2025–2028
  • Contribution limit of $5K per year in 2026, indexed to inflation
  • Parent employers may contribute up to $2.5K per year (also indexed)
  • Tax-deferred growth with Roth-conversion opportunities beginning at age 18
  • No earned-income requirement for Roth conversions 
  • Roth conversions are ideal in low-income years starting after age 18 once the child has transitioned to tax-independency of parents or at age 24 when “kiddie taxation” ends. Early tax independence could even be a combined Roth plus student financial-aid strategy
  • Potential to convert large account values over several years at relatively low tax rates (potentially marginal 10-12% tax-rates, but averaging less due to the standard deduction).
Cons
  • Investment options limited to low-cost indexed stock funds (not necessarily a drawback)
  • Penalty-free withdrawals must wait until age 59½, but the accounts could be advantageous even including penalties
  • Limited custodian control and intervention possibilities if the teen is a wild-child
Caveats
  • If Roth conversions are not undertaken during the child’s low-income years, a UGMA invested to capture long-term capital gains tax-rates may outperform a Trump Account taxed at ordinary income tax-rates
  • Watch this space as future adjustments or eligibility changes are possible
  In effect, the 529 is a two-decade college savings program having some complexity and withdrawal limitations; the UGM is a reasonably flexible, 18-30-year college or house downpayment savings program; and the Trump account is a somewhat inflexible, sixty-year retirement accelerator   Resulting Playbook Here is our family’s intended playbook for tax-advantaged accounts in the grandchild's name:
  • Parents’ retirement account fundings remain their top priority - 401K’s at a minimum up to the match, HSAs with their triple tax advantages, and Roths as long as eligible within income limits.
  • A Trump account has already been initiated to secure the free $1K government seed contribution – grows to potentially $2.6K at age 18 after penalties and taxes.
  • Limited 529 funding has also been initiated to start the 15-year clock for potential later Roth conversions. 
  • The family’s next priority is to fund the Trump account which starts at $5K later this year. Maximizing the Roth conversion opportunity will require ~$116K of contributions (at 3% inflation) over 18 years which we grandparents intend to help fund. I estimate the Roth converted Trump account could grow to ~$2 million of tax-free money at age 60 (6% growth) assuming early-age Roth conversions, and the Wall Street Journal projects as much as $3 million (link likely paywalled).
  • The subsequent priorities are to start UGM taxable account and 529 account contributions in parallel to perhaps initial levels of about $35K each. This may take our family some years depending upon available resources for contributions.
For the UGM account, a balance of $35K should capture a sizeable chunk of the annual $2.7K tax-free income limit by investing in high-yield income alternatives. For the 529 account, $35K aligns with the Roth conversion limit. On a personal note, we had extremely positive UGM outcomes with our children. We saved taxes for two decades, and each child used the ~$60K balance as down payments on their first house shortly after college. Due to the 529’s withdrawal rigidities and potential technology impacts, we are unlikely to fund the 529 to the max. 
  • We will skip Coverdells as the alternatives offer ample savings opportunity in the child’s name ($200K+). 
  • Depending upon spare resources available for gifting, we can always reassess future contributions. 
That’s our plan, and we’re sticking to it…. until something changes.    John Yeigh is an author, coach and youth sports advocate. His book “Win the Youth Sports Game” was published in 2021. John retired in 2017 from the oil industry, where he negotiated financial details for multi-billion-dollar international projects. Check out his earlier articles.  
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The reality of Social Security and Medicare- My real life experience.

"Exactly. And yet many people don’t feel that way and likely would be opposed tax increase to sustain it. I am convinced Americans simply do not make the connection between taxes and what they provide in a society of 340 million or that millions of us need more assistance than others."
- R Quinn
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First Place

"I’ve been blessed to see a lot of the world in my travels, but there is something about going back to the Smoky Mountains in the fall that always feels different. The air is cooler, the colors are deeper, and life seems to slow down just enough to remind me what peace feels like. It’s not just the scenery, although the mountains are hard to beat. It’s the feeling of returning to a place that settles my mind, quiets the noise, and reminds me of the simple things I love most. No matter where I’ve been, the Smokies in the fall always feel like coming home."
- Jeff Peck
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A Life You Build

"Grant thank you for sharing your story. 😊"
- Jeff Peck
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Retirement Toys

"We have a dirt track midget team. A 40' trailer and Freightliner M2 206 extended cab truck to pull it. The car will be in the PRI Show in Indy this Dec, then we'll go racing in Illinois and then the Chili Bowl Nationals in Tulsa in Jan. That's my fun. Not cheap, but I've been around dirt track open wheel racing most of my life. Chili Bowl Nationals | The Official Website for the Chili Bowl Nationals"
- Jeff Peck
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Living On Autopilot

"Here in the retirement village, we buy in bulk and just signed a new contract. It's about $700,000 a year for 929 units, which comes to about $60 a month per user. We get fiber-optic internet and cable TV with hundreds of channels for that price. We hired a consultant to negotiate with the cable companies (about $25K) and he got us a great deal, We even get a $170K rebate for signing up. Right at the moment, they're busy ripping the village up to install conduits for their fiber."
- Ormode
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Sundry Memories of Mom

"Moms are the best part of life. I sure miss mine. Enjoyed reading your article."
- Jeff Peck
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Dickie and his magic beans

"Ha, Dick - you should see the high-end coffees that sell for hundreds of dollars a pound."
- Ormode
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Starting Up

"Andrew, thanks for this and I look forward to the second chapter. I can identify, as I worked long hours for many years, and with a wife and 4 kids. I'm lucky they put up with it and hung in there with me."
- Andrew Forsythe
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Tax Foundation Podcast Episode on American Financial Literacy

"Or select your favorite platform: https://taxfoundation.org/podcast/all/america-financial-literacy/"
- Randy Dobkin
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Investing Fundamentals: A Simple Guide for Beginners

"Nick, Young or old there are many people who don’t have a clue. I’m helping a neighbor who is 67, and newly retired. He was on auto pilot with his company plan and his government pension. He is one of the fortunate few who will be OK."
- W.D. Housley
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Jonathan’s Advice for 2026 Graduates

"11 more to come. All scheduled by Jonathan himself!"
- Bogdan Sheremeta
Read more »

Saving for Grandchildren

OUR FIRST GRANDCHILD recently arrived, which naturally has us thinking about the smartest ways to build a strong financial foundation for her future. In 2019, I wrote Take a Break, which outlined saving strategies on behalf of children. Since then, the landscape has changed with the introduction of Trump accounts and Roth-conversion pathways for 529 accounts.  Families have four tax-advantaged savings approaches on behalf of young children plus the Roth IRA option once the child has earned income – 529 education savings account, a Uniform Gift to Minor (UGM) custodial account, a Coverdell account, and the new Trump account. Each option offers a different mix of tax benefits, contribution requirements and withdrawal rules. 529 Accounts Pros
  • Tax-free growth when used for qualified education expenses
  • High gift-tax contribution limits: $19K per contributor per year (indexed)
  • New ability to convert up to $35K into a Roth IRA for the beneficiary
Cons
  • Relatively complex with penalties and taxes on non-qualified withdrawals
  • Limited, state-approved investment options
  • Risk of underutilization if the child does not pursue qualifying education
Caveats
  • Technology and AI could significantly reduce education’s cost structure in the future
  • Roth conversions are capped at $35K lifetime
  • The 529 must be open 15 years, and contributions must age 5 years before conversion
  • Conversions require the beneficiary to have earned income (i.e. they could Roth anyway)
  • Annual Roth contribution limits still apply (e.g., $7.5K in 2026), so completing the full $35K conversion would take five years
UGM Custodial Accounts Pros
  • Brokerage account where up to $2.7K of unearned income can be tax-free each year
  • High gift-tax contribution limits: $19K per contributor per year (indexed)
  • Broad investment flexibility — stocks, bonds, funds, etc.
  • Few restrictions on how funds may be used for the child’s benefit
  • Potential for low taxes on capital gains, but subject to marginal “kiddie tax” at parent’s rates until tax-independency or age 24 
Cons
  • Higher income or capital gains could trigger the kiddie tax at the parents’ marginal rate
  • Assets count as the child’s for financial-aid purposes
Caveats
  • Custodians have some ability to spend down the account for legitimate child expenses if the child is a wild-child in the later teen years
Coverdell Accounts Pros
  • Tax-free growth for qualified education expenses
  • More flexible investment choices than most 529 plans
Cons
  • Low contribution limit: $2K per year plus income limits restrict who can contribute
  • Essentially irrelevant today given the expanded options within 529 plans
Trump Accounts Pros
  • $1K government seed deposit for children born 2025–2028
  • Contribution limit of $5K per year in 2026, indexed to inflation
  • Parent employers may contribute up to $2.5K per year (also indexed)
  • Tax-deferred growth with Roth-conversion opportunities beginning at age 18
  • No earned-income requirement for Roth conversions 
  • Roth conversions are ideal in low-income years starting after age 18 once the child has transitioned to tax-independency of parents or at age 24 when “kiddie taxation” ends. Early tax independence could even be a combined Roth plus student financial-aid strategy
  • Potential to convert large account values over several years at relatively low tax rates (potentially marginal 10-12% tax-rates, but averaging less due to the standard deduction).
Cons
  • Investment options limited to low-cost indexed stock funds (not necessarily a drawback)
  • Penalty-free withdrawals must wait until age 59½, but the accounts could be advantageous even including penalties
  • Limited custodian control and intervention possibilities if the teen is a wild-child
Caveats
  • If Roth conversions are not undertaken during the child’s low-income years, a UGMA invested to capture long-term capital gains tax-rates may outperform a Trump Account taxed at ordinary income tax-rates
  • Watch this space as future adjustments or eligibility changes are possible
  In effect, the 529 is a two-decade college savings program having some complexity and withdrawal limitations; the UGM is a reasonably flexible, 18-30-year college or house downpayment savings program; and the Trump account is a somewhat inflexible, sixty-year retirement accelerator   Resulting Playbook Here is our family’s intended playbook for tax-advantaged accounts in the grandchild's name:
  • Parents’ retirement account fundings remain their top priority - 401K’s at a minimum up to the match, HSAs with their triple tax advantages, and Roths as long as eligible within income limits.
  • A Trump account has already been initiated to secure the free $1K government seed contribution – grows to potentially $2.6K at age 18 after penalties and taxes.
  • Limited 529 funding has also been initiated to start the 15-year clock for potential later Roth conversions. 
  • The family’s next priority is to fund the Trump account which starts at $5K later this year. Maximizing the Roth conversion opportunity will require ~$116K of contributions (at 3% inflation) over 18 years which we grandparents intend to help fund. I estimate the Roth converted Trump account could grow to ~$2 million of tax-free money at age 60 (6% growth) assuming early-age Roth conversions, and the Wall Street Journal projects as much as $3 million (link likely paywalled).
  • The subsequent priorities are to start UGM taxable account and 529 account contributions in parallel to perhaps initial levels of about $35K each. This may take our family some years depending upon available resources for contributions.
For the UGM account, a balance of $35K should capture a sizeable chunk of the annual $2.7K tax-free income limit by investing in high-yield income alternatives. For the 529 account, $35K aligns with the Roth conversion limit. On a personal note, we had extremely positive UGM outcomes with our children. We saved taxes for two decades, and each child used the ~$60K balance as down payments on their first house shortly after college. Due to the 529’s withdrawal rigidities and potential technology impacts, we are unlikely to fund the 529 to the max. 
  • We will skip Coverdells as the alternatives offer ample savings opportunity in the child’s name ($200K+). 
  • Depending upon spare resources available for gifting, we can always reassess future contributions. 
That’s our plan, and we’re sticking to it…. until something changes.    John Yeigh is an author, coach and youth sports advocate. His book “Win the Youth Sports Game” was published in 2021. John retired in 2017 from the oil industry, where he negotiated financial details for multi-billion-dollar international projects. Check out his earlier articles.  
Read more »

The reality of Social Security and Medicare- My real life experience.

"Exactly. And yet many people don’t feel that way and likely would be opposed tax increase to sustain it. I am convinced Americans simply do not make the connection between taxes and what they provide in a society of 340 million or that millions of us need more assistance than others."
- R Quinn
Read more »

First Place

"I’ve been blessed to see a lot of the world in my travels, but there is something about going back to the Smoky Mountains in the fall that always feels different. The air is cooler, the colors are deeper, and life seems to slow down just enough to remind me what peace feels like. It’s not just the scenery, although the mountains are hard to beat. It’s the feeling of returning to a place that settles my mind, quiets the noise, and reminds me of the simple things I love most. No matter where I’ve been, the Smokies in the fall always feel like coming home."
- Jeff Peck
Read more »

A Life You Build

"Grant thank you for sharing your story. 😊"
- Jeff Peck
Read more »

Retirement Toys

"We have a dirt track midget team. A 40' trailer and Freightliner M2 206 extended cab truck to pull it. The car will be in the PRI Show in Indy this Dec, then we'll go racing in Illinois and then the Chili Bowl Nationals in Tulsa in Jan. That's my fun. Not cheap, but I've been around dirt track open wheel racing most of my life. Chili Bowl Nationals | The Official Website for the Chili Bowl Nationals"
- Jeff Peck
Read more »

Living On Autopilot

"Here in the retirement village, we buy in bulk and just signed a new contract. It's about $700,000 a year for 929 units, which comes to about $60 a month per user. We get fiber-optic internet and cable TV with hundreds of channels for that price. We hired a consultant to negotiate with the cable companies (about $25K) and he got us a great deal, We even get a $170K rebate for signing up. Right at the moment, they're busy ripping the village up to install conduits for their fiber."
- Ormode
Read more »

Sundry Memories of Mom

"Moms are the best part of life. I sure miss mine. Enjoyed reading your article."
- Jeff Peck
Read more »

Dickie and his magic beans

"Ha, Dick - you should see the high-end coffees that sell for hundreds of dollars a pound."
- Ormode
Read more »

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Manifesto

NO. 40: WE SHOULD all know the minimum dollar amount we need each month to keep our financial life afloat. This will drive our emergency fund’s size and our cash holdings once we’re retired.

think

EXPECTATIONS. Investment losses are most distressing when they’re least expected. For instance, many investors expect their stock portfolios to fall occasionally by 20% or more. But they’d be horrified if their money-market mutual fund—which they consider a haven of safety—“broke the buck” and slipped 1% from the standard $1 share price to 99 cents.

act

INVESTIGATE a reverse mortgage. Once you're retired, borrowing against your home’s value shouldn’t be a first choice, but a last resort. Still, it’s helpful—and comforting—to know what that last resort might be worth. To that end, try playing with a reverse mortgage calculator. Pay attention to the money you’ll receive—and to the hefty fees you will incur.

Truths

NO. 111: WALL STREET tries never to send us a bill, so we’re unaware of how much we’re paying. Fund expenses and financial advisor fees are quietly subtracted throughout the year. Stock trading spreads and bond markups are built into security prices. Load mutual fund commissions are swiped from our initial investment or they're deducted when we sell.

Pay down debt

Manifesto

NO. 40: WE SHOULD all know the minimum dollar amount we need each month to keep our financial life afloat. This will drive our emergency fund’s size and our cash holdings once we’re retired.

Spotlight: Borrowing

Credit Card Debt.

American credit card debt just broke the trillion dollar level.  Taking on  debt, “ bad” debt, credit cards , auto loans and similar, is a like attending a raucous party ,  taking in too much alcohol , etc.
The aftermath , paying off high interest loans, is like the worst hangover, ever. It can take decades to recover from it.
Often,  too much alcohol can kill you, quickly or long term, * alas , debt can kill you,

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$88,000 Nightmare

THE YEAR 2011 WAS horrifying. I learned my mom had a life-threatening disease. She passed away six months later.
That forced me to confront the $88,000 of debt I had accumulated during college, including $51,000 in credit card debt. I was in grief, I had no idea what to do about the debt and my mom wasn’t there to advise me.
My friend John told me to seek professional help. A debt settlement company helped me get rid of $16,000 of higher-interest credit card debt,

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Student Loan Repayments and Credit Score

My grandson is a senior in college. He has taken some student loans for which the financial resources exist (529 plan) to pay them in full upon graduation. My question is this:
From the perspective of building a strong credit history, should he pay the loans in full after the grace period, or should he make payments for a period of time, say a year or two, before paying them in full?
Note, that any money leftover in the 529 plan will be either transferred to a Roth IRA when feasible,

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Disney or Bust

AN ARTICLE PUBLISHED in The Wall Street Journal told the story of Americans in their 30s who are spending heavily and piling on debt as we leave the pandemic behind.

One family with an income of $80,000 in Lincoln, Nebraska—where the cost of living is low, with housing costs 22% below the national average—had $20,000 in credit card debt and $160,000 in student loans.

They used stimulus checks to work down their credit card debt.

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Debt: 10 Questions

GOT DEBT? TO GET a handle on the situation and figure out whether you’re handling your loans and credit cards properly, here are 10 questions to ask:

What’s your net worth? You might have a home and sizable financial accounts. But what are you worth once you subtract all your debts?
Are you taking the necessary steps to stop thieves from borrowing money using your identity? To protect yourself, regularly check your credit reports for errors and accounts you don’t recognize,

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Pay It Down

DECIDING WHETHER to buy bonds or pay down the mortgage used to be a tricky decision. Not anymore: Paying extra on your home loan will almost always be the right choice.
This takes some explaining—because it involves wrapping your head around the standard vs. itemized deduction, investment taxes, and a mortgage’s shifting mix of principal and interest.
First, let’s dispense with the obvious objection: Yes, if you’re inclined to buy stocks rather than pay down the mortgage,

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Spotlight: Wasserman

Working Away

EVEN BEFORE COVID-19, I was no stranger to working remotely. From 2011 until I retired in 2018, I worked for a major bank from my home office. I started working remotely a few days a week and then, in 2013, requested to work fulltime from home. This was met with skepticism from friends, colleagues and supervisors. They had concerns that working remotely would make it difficult to connect with others and to get promoted. “Out of sight, out of mind” was a common warning. But during my remote work period, I received two promotions with large pay increases. I was also selected to join an exclusive 10-month leadership pipeline program. I mention this not to brag but to demonstrate that it’s possible to thrive while working remotely. Like the idea of working from home? Here are 11 strategies that helped me: 1. Have a dedicated workspace. There can be more distractions at home than at the office. A quiet, dedicated and preferably isolated work area can minimize distractions. 2. Dress for success. Many people advise you to dress for the job you want. Studies show that how people dress at the office affects how they’re perceived. Even when working remotely, I found it was still important to dress for success, not to impress others but to mentally tell myself that the workday had started. As soon as I woke up, and after a cup of strong tea and meditation, I changed out of my pajamas to comfortable daytime clothes. Nothing fancy. It could be a thick sweater and sweatpants in the cooler months, or a light comfortable T-shirt and pants in the hotter months. Changing clothes was a way to tell my brain to switch into work mode. It’s similar to players donning a team uniform before a game. One…
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Scope Creep

DURING OUR TIME in Spain, we came to admire the water fountains common in mudejar architecture, the Moorish-style homes of Andalusia. During the lockdown, while I tried my hand at creating art, Jim picked up the hobby of making water fountains using a few basic items, including a small water pump and terra cotta planters that he found around the apartment. As the lockdown dragged on, Jim progressed to building more complex fountains. He built an indoor one in a Zen-like style, with water flowing through bamboo pipes into a big terra cotta bowl. The cats claimed this as their drinking fountain. He built another small tabletop fountain for my office. The water bubbled over rocks, so I could enjoy the sound of flowing water. This was also claimed by the cats. Still, although the cats enjoyed the fountains, I think it’s Jim who got the most joy—from making them. About a month ago, we settled back into our townhome in Dallas. Jim wanted to build a fountain to remind us of our time in Andalusia. We already had a large ceramic planter that I’d purchased for $5 at a garage sale, along with a pump given to Jim as a gift. The pump, however, was too powerful. The simplest solution was to buy a smaller $10 pump from Amazon. With the smaller pump and the ceramic pot that we had, Jim could have built a basic fountain in under 30 minutes for $15. But basic wasn’t the type of fountain he wanted to build. It was a classic example of scope creep—a problem not only in the corporate world, but also in the world of remodeling, as Dick Quinn has written about. Long story short: Jim tinkered with the ceramic pot so much that it ended up damaged. That meant…
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Grab the Wheel

WHILE JIM AND I cooked dinner the other night, we talked about the old cars we drove when we were younger—and how they tended to pull to one side if we took our hands off the steering wheel. We humans have a similar tendency: We head in one direction unless we make a conscious effort to be more rational. That brings me to the coronavirus and accompanying stock market plunge. We all have gut reactions to news like this. Many of us drift toward fear and even panic. If you find that happening, try these three steps: 1. Have a roadmap. Instead of reacting to the news, each of us needs a plan that’ll keep us on course. As we go from childhood to adult life to retirement, we all have financial goals along the way, things like funding college, building an emergency fund, paying off debt, amassing wealth, starting a business and more. Once we’ve developed a financial plan to take us from here to where we want to be, we need to stick with it, no matter how great the temptation to stray. For instance, three of my top priorities were saving for my children’s college, paying off the mortgage and retirement. The 2008-09 Great Recession was perhaps the scariest financial time since the Second World War. But at that juncture, my goals were still many years away, so I stuck with my plan. I continued to fund college and retirement accounts, while also sending in extra mortgage payments as often as I could. I had to cut back on luxuries, including vacations, but I kept my priorities dead center. 2. Know your risk tolerance. We need to be aware of how we react during times of stress and then plan for it. For example, when stressed, do…
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Trust Betrayed

BEFORE I RETIRED, I was a credit risk manager. I had to take compliance courses annually. One course focused on financial abuse, especially of the elderly. I learned that the most common perpetrators are not strangers, but family members, friends and caregivers who take advantage of too-trusting seniors. But it’s one thing to know this theoretically—and quite another to find out it’s happening in your own family. I previously wrote about now both my late father and his close friend were victims of financial abuse. After we discovered what was happening, I thought my three siblings and I had straightened out the family finances. My youngest brother and I live in the U.S., while my parents were in Thailand. We all agreed that my two middle brothers, who live in Bangkok, should be co-guardians of my parents and their finances. My father was dying of Parkinson’s and my mother was deteriorating mentally and physically, so it made sense to let my brothers have complete control. We split my parents’ money, enough to last the rest of their lives, between my two brothers in 2019. We had regular Zoom calls to discuss my parents’ physical condition and financial situation. One of my brothers sent us an accounting every quarter, while the other didn’t. When, in early 2020, we finally confronted the brother who hadn’t provided any sort of accounting, he admitted that the money he oversaw was gone. We consulted an attorney and were advised that we could go to the police to have him arrested. In the end, we decided against it for my mom’s sake. It would have devastated her. My other brother still has the other half of my parents’ money in his care, which should be enough for my mom, now that my father has passed. Losing my…
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Cheaper Abroad

JIM AND I JUST CAME back from two weeks’ vacation in Greece and Turkey. We planned the trip at the last minute, and booked our tickets less than a week before flying.  Many imagine high prices when they think of travelling abroad. But in fact, there are many international destinations that are more affordable than vacationing in the U.S. We spent much less on lodging and food—the costliest items after airfare—than we would in America. October isn’t exactly high season, so overall prices were very reasonable. Most European countries have a high vaccination rate, so we found it quite safe to travel. We had to show our vaccination cards to be admitted to museums and to dine indoors at restaurants. Want to travel abroad without busting the budget? Here are some tips. Airfare. Book early and go during the off-season. Better yet, be flexible on dates and places. Search for flights on Google to explore possible destinations. During the off-season, international airfares can be very cheap. I used our travel points to pay for our airfare, so we paid nothing for tickets. Without travel points, our multi-city flights from Dallas to Athens and then Istanbul to Dallas would have cost us $666 each. Experts recommend booking 120 days ahead for European vacations during peak season. Had we bought our tickets earlier, it would have been cheaper, maybe a bit under $600. Lodging. We paid an average of $78 a night in Greece and Turkey. When we left the U.S., we had reservations for the first three nights in Athens and the last five nights in Istanbul. We had no reservations for the six nights in between because we weren’t sure where we wanted to go. Many of our bookings were made on the fly, usually the night before. Still, we spent less than…
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Harder for Some

IS SUCCESS WITHIN reach for anybody willing to work hard? We like to think of the U.S. as a meritocracy with a one-to-one correlation between effort and achievement. It’s a notion that allows us to feel that we’re in control of our destiny and that we’ve fully earned the success we enjoy. But in truth, there are many factors that continue to tilt the playing field one way or another. Socioeconomic status, race and gender still sway the game. While the impact of such factors may have been reduced, comprehensive data show they remain important. Warren Buffett is clearly a winner at the success game, but even he says that not every person gets an even chance. Acknowledging persistent gender and race discrimination, he used the phrase "ovarian lottery" at a 1997 shareholder meeting. The ovarian lottery is “the most important event in which you’ll ever participate,” Buffett said. “It’s going to determine way more than what school you go to, how hard you work, all kinds of things.” He noted that he didn’t have to overcome barriers of race or gender. As Buffett admitted, “We won it by being White. You know, no tribute to us, it just happened that way.” [xyz-ihs snippet="Mobile-Subscribe"] Buffett’s comments from 24 years ago are still valid today. Consider three recent studies: A 2019 study by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation examined inequality and concluded that, no matter where you're born, “life will be harder if you are born a girl.” A large genome-based study of economic data bluntly challenges the idea of our system being a pure meritocracy, summed up by the headline, “It’s better to be born rich than gifted.” It found that the least-gifted children of high-income parents graduate from college at higher rates than the most-gifted children of low-income parents.…
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