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How Has Living in a CCRC Affected Your Monthly Bills?

"If you are in a Type A or Type B some of the monthly fee is considered prepaid medical expenses, so the comparison is not exact. (In a Type A your monthly fee is the same regardless of level of care: in a Type B you pay more, but below market rate, for higher levels of care.) Also, I am now essentially paying rent, whereas I paid my mortgage off years ago, so previously was living rent-free. The equity in the house largely covered the entry fee, so no lost interest. Also, no ongoing maintenance costs. There are significant non-monetary advantages to living in a CCRC as well."
- mytimetotravel
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The Point of Diminishing Returns

"Really good post Dan. I drive a terrain (basically same as your equinox) and it gets me around. I like it, its 11 years old and in great shape. Every once in awhile someone will comment if I just did "this or that" I could get a nicer newer car. I smile and nod. I can certainly afford a newer car, but I'm happy. Spending 30K or 50k or even 70k would bring me little joy. Diminishing returns for sure. Enjoyed the read, Go Toledo!"
- Michael Latscha
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The annuities are coming, the annuities are coming‼️

"Yes they should. Individuals will be able to create their own pension. The next step is an option that will allow gradual accumulation in an annuity over all the years of participation without the need to make that lump sum purchase decision."
- R Quinn
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Ripples Through Time

"This article could have been written about stay at home moms, too. Loved and agreed with the comments about teachers. Chris"
- baldscreen
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How to buy a laptop computer in an AI world

"I use AI frequently mostly for drawing pictures. This morning I tried co-pilot for the first time to draw Sen Sanders and got this reply. No problem with the other AI programs. “I can’t create that image. I’m not able to generate or edit depictions of current elected officials or political candidates in any form, including stylized or artistic renderings.” I wonder why?"
- R Quinn
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The Absurdity of my Mental Financial Gymnastics

"I agree with you completely. I've actually taken this approach myself. My retirement portfolio has been rigorously stress tested and Monte Carlo simulated to confirm it can successfully fund my retirement—and that's without even factoring in the proceeds from selling my business. Most of those funds haven't entered the equity market at all. I've kept them in bank CDs, high-yield savings accounts, and government inflation-linked securities. My reasoning is straightforward: the portfolio alone is sufficient for retirement, so the business sale proceeds are simply icing on the cake. There's absolutely no need for me to take risks with that money. Could I achieve higher returns? Sure. But I simply don't need them. Even a ten-year market downturn wouldn't concern me. At this point, I'm prioritizing capital preservation over chasing outsized gains, and I'm completely comfortable with that approach."
- Mark Crothers
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Asset Location Decisions

WHERE YOU PUT your investments can make a huge difference for your after-tax wealth.  As you know, we have 3 main investment accounts:
  1. Taxable account. A traditional brokerage account where you are taxed every time you dividends or sell investments at a gain.
  2. Tax deferred account. Traditional 401(k), 403(b), and traditional IRAs allow taxes to be deferred to the future. You pay taxes when your investments are withdrawn, and generally come with an immediate tax deduction.
  3. Tax exempt account. Roth IRA, Roth 401(k), and Roth 403(b) allow you to avoid future taxes while providing no immediate tax deduction. The growth of these accounts is tax free.
Asset location Say, as part of your investment strategy, you want to start putting money in bonds. You have a 401(k), Roth IRA, and a brokerage account. Where do we put them? Brokerage account When you hold bonds, like BND (Total Bond Fund ETF), you pay taxes on non-qualified dividends (e.g. interest from the bond) up to a max rate of 37%, plus net investment income tax, if applies. This means that if you receive $1,000 from the bond, you will pay approximately $370 in taxes if you are in the highest tax bracket. Of course, not all of us are in such bracket, and perhaps a more reasonable number would be ~$220-240 for most people. But is taxable brokerage the right choice for you? Not really. You would be paying $200+ every year, plus state/local taxes. Personally, I'm 100% invested in equities, because I want to be aggressive with my portfolio in my 20s, but if I did have bonds, I wouldn't hold them in a brokerage account.   Roth IRA/Roth 401k When you purchase bonds in a Roth IRA, you will not pay taxes on the interest since it’s a tax-free account! That’s much better than the $200+ in taxes you would pay in a brokerage account. But is it the best choice? Well, bonds are considered “fixed income” funds, and they don’t grow much. Since Roth IRA is a tax-free account (meaning we pay no taxes when we sell these investments), we want as much growth as possible in it. Bonds would hinder that performance. So, holding bonds is better than brokerage, but likely not the most ideal place.   Traditional 401(k)/403(b) By holding bonds in an account like a traditional 401(k)/403(b), the interest income avoids immediate taxation, compounding tax free until withdrawal.  So, we avoid the ~$200+ of taxes and aren’t sacrificing the tax-free compounding like we are with a Roth IRA. This makes the pre-tax 401(k) the perfect location for bonds. Of course the 401(k)/403(b) choices are limited and are provided by your employer. So, if they don’t offer a bond fund, you might not have a choice. Some other examples:
  • REIT stocks/ETFs also pay non-qualified dividends and would follow similar logic like bond funds.
  • Actively managed funds (I’m strongly against these, as I believe passive funds are the best & lowest fees) have a lot of turnover, so they ideally shouldn’t be in a brokerage account due to capital gain distributions.
  • Stocks that pay 0% dividends (like Netflix) are the most efficient to hold within the brokerage account, but may need a more robust overall investing plan.
I really like this visual from Fidelity to reference:
But how much does this matter? Vanguard's research finds that a thoughtful asset location strategy can add significantly more value than an equal location strategy. The value added typically ranges from 5 to 30 basis points of after-tax return, depending on circumstances (e.g. income, portfolio size) Overall, I hope you think about all of your investments & how they get taxed.    Bogdan Sheremeta is a licensed CPA based in Illinois with experience at Deloitte and a Fortune 200 multinational.
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Which bond fund?

"We hold nearly all Treasurys in our bond allocation due to what Bill Bernstein has said. And i think it was someone else who said that return of your capital is more important than return on your capital."
- Randy Dobkin
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What’s Really On My Mind

MY RETIREMENT HAS been wonderful so far. Honestly, sometimes I have to stop and remind myself how lucky I am. Rachel and I have our health and enjoy each other's company, which is not always true when a couple retires. However, there are four things that concern me as I reach my mid-70s.

Loneliness

I tried calling Mark, my old high school friend, a couple of weeks ago, and I haven’t heard from him. I tried again and got a message that his mailbox was full. I texted him asking him to call me when he had time. This isn’t like him. I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong. He has health issues, and when you’re my age, you think the worst. I can’t keep track of all the people who were a part of my life who have passed away since I retired. Some of them I was extremely close to and will be terribly missed. I never thought that when I retired, I would be more concerned about running out of friends than running out of money. If I ever lost Rachel, and I keep losing friends, I think I’d need to move into a retirement community just to have more people around me. The silence would be too much. Stock Market Lately, it feels like the economy has been built for people like me — retirees who already own their homes and have money in the stock market. I never expected our net worth would jump this much these past couple of years.  The rise in real estate prices and the AI-fueled market boom have nudged Rachel and me into spending more freely. We eat out more than we used to — not fancy places. We even booked business-class seats on our last trip, something I never imagined I’d do. And lately, I’ve been walking around the house noticing little projects and thinking: Why not? Let’s fix that. But underneath all that comfort is a knot in my stomach. If this AI boom fizzles, the wealth effect that’s padded our lives could disappear just as quickly. Every time I read that Nvidia now makes up around 8% of the S&P 500 and the “Magnificent Seven” accounts for about 35% of the index, I feel a twinge of the same uneasiness I had during the dot-com era. I keep asking myself: Are we all betting too much on too few companies? These few companies are spending billions of dollars on AI. The question on many investors’ minds is whether they will make enough money off AI to recoup their investments and turn a profit. Still, I’m not changing my portfolio. Maybe it’s trust that things will settle. The market has risen so much that I’d probably be fine even if it slid. And unlike the dot-com days, these companies at least make real money. Even so, something about this AI rush feels fragile. Like we’re all enjoying the party while quietly wondering when the music will stop.

The Economy for Others

What worries me even more is that this strong economy doesn’t seem to be helping everyone. It’s so hard for younger people to buy their first home — the median first-time buyer is 40 now. Airlines are struggling more with filling economy seats than business class ones. And one out of eight people in this country depends on SNAP just to buy food. I’ve also been reading about how tough the job market is for recent college grads, partly because AI is reshaping entry-level work. I sometimes wonder whether my son-in-law will ever feel like he’s on the same financial footing we had at his age. He’s got a good job, but the economy doesn’t seem geared toward helping the younger generation or those who are struggling.  All of this leaves me in a strange place emotionally. On one hand, I know I’ve benefited from this market boom — more than I probably deserve. On the other hand, I’m not blind to the fact that this same economy feels like a completely different world for people who aren’t retired homeowners with investments. I can enjoy the comfort it’s given Rachel and me, but I can’t ignore the uncomfortable thought that the system seems to be lifting some of us up while quietly letting others slip behind.  Will I get the health care I need when I need it?  One thing I never expected to worry about in my 70s is whether I’ll be able to see a doctor when I need one. My urologist — the same one who has always returned my calls and squeezed me in when something felt off  — is switching to a concierge practice. He says he wanted to offer “more personalized care.” Then he handed me a brochure with fees ranging from $1,200 a year for the basic level to $12,000 for the premier package. None of it’s covered by Medicare. These fees do not include the additional services listed in his contract agreement that go beyond what Medicare pays. I sat there thinking: I just need a doctor who answers the phone when it matters. Even he admitted the new setup might not be a good fit for me and suggested I find another urologist. When I walked out of his office, I felt like losing another person I had depended on. Now, I’m concerned that I won’t be able to find another doctor who will be there for me when I need care. It already takes seven months to see my geriatric doctor. My dermatologist is booked months out, too. Everyone keeps saying that older adults will need more medical care, but the system feels like it’s shrinking right when I’m finally entering the phase of life when I need it most. I try not to dwell on it, but sometimes I imagine waking up one morning and seeing blood in my urine again and not knowing who to call. It’s an unsettling feeling —  the kind that lingers and makes you realize how much you took for granted when you were younger. Although I have these concerns, I’m thankful every day for Rachel, for the life we’ve built, and for the good fortune we’ve had. But retirement isn’t the carefree stretch of leisure I once imagined. It’s a period of adjustment — to loss, to uncertainty, to an economy and a health-care system that feel less predictable than ever.   Dennis Friedman retired from Boeing Satellite Systems after a 30-year career in manufacturing. Born in Ohio, Dennis is a California transplant with a bachelor’s degree in history and an MBA. A self-described “humble investor,” he likes reading historical novels and about personal finance. Follow Dennis on X @DMFrie and check out his earlier articles.
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They lied to us. 

"I should tell about the time I was talked into going in the catacombs in Rome and discovered I was claustrophobic or when I was chastised in the opera house in Kyiv for touching their newly gold leafed railings. I don’t have good luck in Eastern European countries."
- R Quinn
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What do you DESERVE?

"I would not put self-funded Social Security in a category with social programs designed for those in economic need. SS was designed not to be such a program."
- R Quinn
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How Has Living in a CCRC Affected Your Monthly Bills?

"If you are in a Type A or Type B some of the monthly fee is considered prepaid medical expenses, so the comparison is not exact. (In a Type A your monthly fee is the same regardless of level of care: in a Type B you pay more, but below market rate, for higher levels of care.) Also, I am now essentially paying rent, whereas I paid my mortgage off years ago, so previously was living rent-free. The equity in the house largely covered the entry fee, so no lost interest. Also, no ongoing maintenance costs. There are significant non-monetary advantages to living in a CCRC as well."
- mytimetotravel
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The Point of Diminishing Returns

"Really good post Dan. I drive a terrain (basically same as your equinox) and it gets me around. I like it, its 11 years old and in great shape. Every once in awhile someone will comment if I just did "this or that" I could get a nicer newer car. I smile and nod. I can certainly afford a newer car, but I'm happy. Spending 30K or 50k or even 70k would bring me little joy. Diminishing returns for sure. Enjoyed the read, Go Toledo!"
- Michael Latscha
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The annuities are coming, the annuities are coming‼️

"Yes they should. Individuals will be able to create their own pension. The next step is an option that will allow gradual accumulation in an annuity over all the years of participation without the need to make that lump sum purchase decision."
- R Quinn
Read more »

Ripples Through Time

"This article could have been written about stay at home moms, too. Loved and agreed with the comments about teachers. Chris"
- baldscreen
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How to buy a laptop computer in an AI world

"I use AI frequently mostly for drawing pictures. This morning I tried co-pilot for the first time to draw Sen Sanders and got this reply. No problem with the other AI programs. “I can’t create that image. I’m not able to generate or edit depictions of current elected officials or political candidates in any form, including stylized or artistic renderings.” I wonder why?"
- R Quinn
Read more »

The Absurdity of my Mental Financial Gymnastics

"I agree with you completely. I've actually taken this approach myself. My retirement portfolio has been rigorously stress tested and Monte Carlo simulated to confirm it can successfully fund my retirement—and that's without even factoring in the proceeds from selling my business. Most of those funds haven't entered the equity market at all. I've kept them in bank CDs, high-yield savings accounts, and government inflation-linked securities. My reasoning is straightforward: the portfolio alone is sufficient for retirement, so the business sale proceeds are simply icing on the cake. There's absolutely no need for me to take risks with that money. Could I achieve higher returns? Sure. But I simply don't need them. Even a ten-year market downturn wouldn't concern me. At this point, I'm prioritizing capital preservation over chasing outsized gains, and I'm completely comfortable with that approach."
- Mark Crothers
Read more »

Asset Location Decisions

WHERE YOU PUT your investments can make a huge difference for your after-tax wealth.  As you know, we have 3 main investment accounts:
  1. Taxable account. A traditional brokerage account where you are taxed every time you dividends or sell investments at a gain.
  2. Tax deferred account. Traditional 401(k), 403(b), and traditional IRAs allow taxes to be deferred to the future. You pay taxes when your investments are withdrawn, and generally come with an immediate tax deduction.
  3. Tax exempt account. Roth IRA, Roth 401(k), and Roth 403(b) allow you to avoid future taxes while providing no immediate tax deduction. The growth of these accounts is tax free.
Asset location Say, as part of your investment strategy, you want to start putting money in bonds. You have a 401(k), Roth IRA, and a brokerage account. Where do we put them? Brokerage account When you hold bonds, like BND (Total Bond Fund ETF), you pay taxes on non-qualified dividends (e.g. interest from the bond) up to a max rate of 37%, plus net investment income tax, if applies. This means that if you receive $1,000 from the bond, you will pay approximately $370 in taxes if you are in the highest tax bracket. Of course, not all of us are in such bracket, and perhaps a more reasonable number would be ~$220-240 for most people. But is taxable brokerage the right choice for you? Not really. You would be paying $200+ every year, plus state/local taxes. Personally, I'm 100% invested in equities, because I want to be aggressive with my portfolio in my 20s, but if I did have bonds, I wouldn't hold them in a brokerage account.   Roth IRA/Roth 401k When you purchase bonds in a Roth IRA, you will not pay taxes on the interest since it’s a tax-free account! That’s much better than the $200+ in taxes you would pay in a brokerage account. But is it the best choice? Well, bonds are considered “fixed income” funds, and they don’t grow much. Since Roth IRA is a tax-free account (meaning we pay no taxes when we sell these investments), we want as much growth as possible in it. Bonds would hinder that performance. So, holding bonds is better than brokerage, but likely not the most ideal place.   Traditional 401(k)/403(b) By holding bonds in an account like a traditional 401(k)/403(b), the interest income avoids immediate taxation, compounding tax free until withdrawal.  So, we avoid the ~$200+ of taxes and aren’t sacrificing the tax-free compounding like we are with a Roth IRA. This makes the pre-tax 401(k) the perfect location for bonds. Of course the 401(k)/403(b) choices are limited and are provided by your employer. So, if they don’t offer a bond fund, you might not have a choice. Some other examples:
  • REIT stocks/ETFs also pay non-qualified dividends and would follow similar logic like bond funds.
  • Actively managed funds (I’m strongly against these, as I believe passive funds are the best & lowest fees) have a lot of turnover, so they ideally shouldn’t be in a brokerage account due to capital gain distributions.
  • Stocks that pay 0% dividends (like Netflix) are the most efficient to hold within the brokerage account, but may need a more robust overall investing plan.
I really like this visual from Fidelity to reference:
But how much does this matter? Vanguard's research finds that a thoughtful asset location strategy can add significantly more value than an equal location strategy. The value added typically ranges from 5 to 30 basis points of after-tax return, depending on circumstances (e.g. income, portfolio size) Overall, I hope you think about all of your investments & how they get taxed.    Bogdan Sheremeta is a licensed CPA based in Illinois with experience at Deloitte and a Fortune 200 multinational.
Read more »

Which bond fund?

"We hold nearly all Treasurys in our bond allocation due to what Bill Bernstein has said. And i think it was someone else who said that return of your capital is more important than return on your capital."
- Randy Dobkin
Read more »

What’s Really On My Mind

MY RETIREMENT HAS been wonderful so far. Honestly, sometimes I have to stop and remind myself how lucky I am. Rachel and I have our health and enjoy each other's company, which is not always true when a couple retires. However, there are four things that concern me as I reach my mid-70s.

Loneliness

I tried calling Mark, my old high school friend, a couple of weeks ago, and I haven’t heard from him. I tried again and got a message that his mailbox was full. I texted him asking him to call me when he had time. This isn’t like him. I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong. He has health issues, and when you’re my age, you think the worst. I can’t keep track of all the people who were a part of my life who have passed away since I retired. Some of them I was extremely close to and will be terribly missed. I never thought that when I retired, I would be more concerned about running out of friends than running out of money. If I ever lost Rachel, and I keep losing friends, I think I’d need to move into a retirement community just to have more people around me. The silence would be too much. Stock Market Lately, it feels like the economy has been built for people like me — retirees who already own their homes and have money in the stock market. I never expected our net worth would jump this much these past couple of years.  The rise in real estate prices and the AI-fueled market boom have nudged Rachel and me into spending more freely. We eat out more than we used to — not fancy places. We even booked business-class seats on our last trip, something I never imagined I’d do. And lately, I’ve been walking around the house noticing little projects and thinking: Why not? Let’s fix that. But underneath all that comfort is a knot in my stomach. If this AI boom fizzles, the wealth effect that’s padded our lives could disappear just as quickly. Every time I read that Nvidia now makes up around 8% of the S&P 500 and the “Magnificent Seven” accounts for about 35% of the index, I feel a twinge of the same uneasiness I had during the dot-com era. I keep asking myself: Are we all betting too much on too few companies? These few companies are spending billions of dollars on AI. The question on many investors’ minds is whether they will make enough money off AI to recoup their investments and turn a profit. Still, I’m not changing my portfolio. Maybe it’s trust that things will settle. The market has risen so much that I’d probably be fine even if it slid. And unlike the dot-com days, these companies at least make real money. Even so, something about this AI rush feels fragile. Like we’re all enjoying the party while quietly wondering when the music will stop.

The Economy for Others

What worries me even more is that this strong economy doesn’t seem to be helping everyone. It’s so hard for younger people to buy their first home — the median first-time buyer is 40 now. Airlines are struggling more with filling economy seats than business class ones. And one out of eight people in this country depends on SNAP just to buy food. I’ve also been reading about how tough the job market is for recent college grads, partly because AI is reshaping entry-level work. I sometimes wonder whether my son-in-law will ever feel like he’s on the same financial footing we had at his age. He’s got a good job, but the economy doesn’t seem geared toward helping the younger generation or those who are struggling.  All of this leaves me in a strange place emotionally. On one hand, I know I’ve benefited from this market boom — more than I probably deserve. On the other hand, I’m not blind to the fact that this same economy feels like a completely different world for people who aren’t retired homeowners with investments. I can enjoy the comfort it’s given Rachel and me, but I can’t ignore the uncomfortable thought that the system seems to be lifting some of us up while quietly letting others slip behind.  Will I get the health care I need when I need it?  One thing I never expected to worry about in my 70s is whether I’ll be able to see a doctor when I need one. My urologist — the same one who has always returned my calls and squeezed me in when something felt off  — is switching to a concierge practice. He says he wanted to offer “more personalized care.” Then he handed me a brochure with fees ranging from $1,200 a year for the basic level to $12,000 for the premier package. None of it’s covered by Medicare. These fees do not include the additional services listed in his contract agreement that go beyond what Medicare pays. I sat there thinking: I just need a doctor who answers the phone when it matters. Even he admitted the new setup might not be a good fit for me and suggested I find another urologist. When I walked out of his office, I felt like losing another person I had depended on. Now, I’m concerned that I won’t be able to find another doctor who will be there for me when I need care. It already takes seven months to see my geriatric doctor. My dermatologist is booked months out, too. Everyone keeps saying that older adults will need more medical care, but the system feels like it’s shrinking right when I’m finally entering the phase of life when I need it most. I try not to dwell on it, but sometimes I imagine waking up one morning and seeing blood in my urine again and not knowing who to call. It’s an unsettling feeling —  the kind that lingers and makes you realize how much you took for granted when you were younger. Although I have these concerns, I’m thankful every day for Rachel, for the life we’ve built, and for the good fortune we’ve had. But retirement isn’t the carefree stretch of leisure I once imagined. It’s a period of adjustment — to loss, to uncertainty, to an economy and a health-care system that feel less predictable than ever.   Dennis Friedman retired from Boeing Satellite Systems after a 30-year career in manufacturing. Born in Ohio, Dennis is a California transplant with a bachelor’s degree in history and an MBA. A self-described “humble investor,” he likes reading historical novels and about personal finance. Follow Dennis on X @DMFrie and check out his earlier articles.
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Manifesto

NO. 60: WE SHOULDN’T necessarily be investment contrarians, but we should be leery of crowds. When “everybody” is buying, that’s a warning sign—and we should resist joining the stampede.

Truths

NO. 125: BORROWING early in our adult life can be a rational strategy. It allows us to buy items for which we don’t currently have the cash, including college educations, homes and cars, thereby jumpstarting our financial life. But we should be careful not to overdo it—and we should aim to get all of our debts paid off before we retire and give up our paycheck.

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NO. 38: WE GET mentally stuck on all kinds of numbers—the price we paid for a stock, the S&P 500’s all-time high or recent bear market low, the salary we had at the job we lost last year, the price of our most recent car, what our neighbors sold their home for three years ago—and this anchoring can cause us to make all kinds of foolish financial decisions.

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FAT TAILS. We imagine investment returns will look like the standard humped-back normal distribution curve, with annual results mostly clustering around the average, while extremely good and bad years are relatively rare. But in reality, great and terrible years occur with surprising frequency, causing the performance distribution curve to have "fat tails."

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Manifesto

NO. 60: WE SHOULDN’T necessarily be investment contrarians, but we should be leery of crowds. When “everybody” is buying, that’s a warning sign—and we should resist joining the stampede.

Spotlight: Family

It’s All Relatives

MY WIFE AND I JUST returned from our annual Thanksgiving vacation on North Carolina’s Outer Banks. This is a yearly outing for our immediate family, my wife’s four siblings and their families. This year we numbered 43, representing three generations of siblings, children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews, along with significant others.
I wrote an article about this family tradition three years ago. It started in 1995, and has been held 25 times since. We’ve only missed two years—one because of a family wedding in California and another due to COVID-19.

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Lay Down the Law

I DON’T KNOW ABOUT you, but there are things I wish I had learned when I was young—say, at the ripe old age of three or four. I wish I had learned another language. I wish I had started the violin. I wish someone had taught me math and not just how to count to 10.
I believe we can learn all these things and more at a very early age. Why? Because we are human sponges when we’re children.

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Terrible Twenties

WHEN I WAS IN MY 20s, with two young children to provide for, I had neither an emergency fund nor nearly enough life insurance. I knew both were important—but I simply didn’t have the money to spare.
Make no mistake: Launching a financial life is daunting. Most twentysomethings have modest incomes, and yet they’re supposed to save for retirement, buy a car, build up an emergency reserve and put aside money for a house down payment,

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My Parents’ Retirement

DAD WAS AN ACCOUNTANT. He graduated from the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School, taking classes at night while working full-time. He also studied engineering at another Philadelphia college, again taking classes at night. Dad would have enjoyed being an engineer, but he could only take on so much while working a day job. He never completed that degree.
Being sharp at math and having an organized mind, accounting was a good fit. Dad eventually became president of J.S.

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How was your Mother’s Day?

This holiday can be a stressful one for many families.  Who plans it? Who hosts it? Do you go out for a meal or cook or cater in?  Who is invited?  Who can actually come (geographically and other commitments)?  How does everyone get along?
After an exhausting but great Mother’s Day at our Jersey shore home on a beautiful day here my wife and I collapsed as I reflected on how lucky we are compared to many families including many of our friends.

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Growing Up (IV)

THE SOUND AND SMELL of the Pickle will be forever burned into my memory. As a wannabe cool teenager, getting rides to school and soccer practice from my parents in their inherited 1976 green Dodge Aspen coupe with whitewall tires—a.k.a. the Pickle—was beyond embarrassing.
Sometimes, my parents would honk pulling away, just to add insult to injury. Needless to say, it took a bit of humble pie to finally understand the lessons my parents were teaching me,

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Spotlight: Rao

When you retire, should you move your savings to IRA or leave it in 401(k) plan?

This is a major financial decision for retirees. 25% of retirees over 60 still have their savings in a 401k plan, 5 years after retirement. There are advantages for each option. IRA More investment options. Easy to implement complex investment strategies Consolidation of multiple 401K accounts into one IRA simplifies finances. 401K Costs and fees are normally lower. Better protection against law suits, creditors and bankruptcy. There are many more pros and cons for each. Much will depend on individual situation. If you are already a retiree, which option did you pick and why? Are you happy with that decision? What would be your advice to others? If you are planning to retire soon, which option are you considering and why?  
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How to protect your retirement savings from scammers?

I was reading this New York Times Article today titled: " How one man lost $740,000 to scammers targeting his retirement savings". See this link. This is a shocking reminder that scammers are getting more and more sophisticated. It is going to get worse. Criminals on the internet are increasingly going after Americans over 60 for their retirement savings. Potential losses last year were over $3.4 billion. Here's another link that's relevant. What steps should we take to protect our assets from scammers? What telltale signs will you look for,  to warn you of a potential scam in the making?
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Risks Retirees Face

WE’VE ALL HEARD THE maxim that “without risk, there’s no reward.” Over the years, we’ve all taken countless risks—big and small, financial and otherwise—to get to where we are today. Every activity has a risk associated with it, and that includes retirement. It’s best to be aware of these risks and, when prudent, take steps to limit them. Here are nine risks that retirees face. 1. Health. Even if we’re fortunate to enjoy a long, active retirement, our health may not be great in our later years. Alternatively, even if our own health holds up, our spouse may have medical issues. On top of that, we’ll likely face escalating health costs as we age. I’ve watched a friend move from independent living to assisted living to a nursing home to memory care. Each move was progressively more expensive. Good planning is needed to manage such life-changing events. 2. Longevity. I met a retiree at a party who said, “My mother passed away at 70 and my father at 72. The chance of me reaching my 90s is virtually nil. My plan is to spend more and enjoy life while it lasts.” A wise move? No matter what our family health history, it’s risky to assume we won’t enjoy a long life. And even if we don’t live to a ripe old age, our spouse may. 3. Market downturns. While the stock market has returned an average 10% a year over long stretches, a major drawdown of 20% or more could happen at any time. When we were young, we had many years to recoup such losses. But once we’re retired and drawing on our portfolio for spending money, our time horizon is often considerably shorter. A balanced portfolio of stocks and bonds can help reduce this risk. 4. Spending. We can’t control how the financial markets perform, but we can control our own spending—and avoid the excesses that can put our retirement at risk. My advice: Prior to buying anything, consider whether it's a need or want. 5. Family. Our retirement plan could be derailed by a host of family issues, whether it’s divorce, the need to support adult children, paying for children’s or grandchildren’s college costs, the death of a spouse and estate-planning mistakes. 6. Inflation. Most employer pensions aren’t indexed to inflation. Our pension might seem ample when we first retire. But a decade later, the buying power will be much reduced. As with many risks listed here, ample savings are likely our best defense. 7. Scams. Thieves are using increasingly sophisticated techniques to target seniors. We’ve all heard horror stories of investors losing huge sums to trickery and to get-rich-quick schemes. You no doubt recall the saying, “If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.” Those words are worth bearing in mind. 8. Known unknowns. Think about threats such as flooding, fire, hurricanes, long-term-care costs, accidents and lawsuits. We know these are all possibilities, but we don’t know when or if they’ll come to pass. Still, we can prepare. 9. Unknown unknowns. Consider the recent pandemic. The world was unprepared and billions of lives were turned upside down. We can’t make specific preparations for threats we’re unaware of, but we can make sure our financial life can withstand large, unforeseen shocks. I’ve spent time thinking through the above risks, and I believe it’s helped me to make more rational financial choices. Maybe we should all take our cues from the quote that’s sometimes wrongly attributed to Mark Twain: “I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened.” Sundar Mohan Rao retired recently after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in Tampa in a 55-plus community. Mohan's interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. Check out his earlier articles. [xyz-ihs snippet="Donate"]
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Begin by Quitting

MANY FOLKS CLAIM TO be ready for retirement, both financially and psychologically. But they’re often surprised to discover that the reality is different from what they expected. I started planning well in advance of my 2023 retirement. I read dozens of books on the subject, and talked to many classmates and friends who’d already retired. Of all the books and videos that I reviewed, one talk on YouTube stood out: a TEDx Talk by Dr. Riley Moynes on the four phases of retirement. The four phases he identifies are honeymoon, loss of identity, trial and error, and reinvention. Based on my observations of recent and long-term retirees in two 55-plus communities, these four phases do indeed reflect what happens in retirement. But I also think two further phases need to be added. Phase 1: Honeymoon. New retirees start traveling to exotic places, visit long-lost friends and relatives, and splurge on expensive things. Freedom from a nine-to-five job is liberating. Decades of saving and investing provide sufficient cash flow and a big enough nest egg to make retirement feel like one long vacation. This phase can get derailed by unforeseen events. I know many who retired during the pandemic and stayed home for a while. The retirement honeymoon can also get derailed by a sudden change in your health or your partner's, or by the need to care for elderly parents. Moynes says that, “Phase 1 lasts for a year or so, then it begins to lose its luster. We begin to feel a bit bored, and we ask ourselves, ‘Is that all there is to retirement?’” When I retired, I didn’t spend much time in the honeymoon phase. I was clear about what I wanted to do and got busy right away. Phase 2: Loss of identity. This is the phase when folks start regretting that they retired. They feel the loss of their old routine, their interactions with colleagues and their identity. Moynes says that, "Phase 2 is also where we come face to face with the three Ds: divorce, depression and decline, both physical and mental. The result of all of this is we can feel like we have been hit by a bus.” Phase 2 is a challenge that some retirees struggle to escape. Sometimes, health issues crop up, derailing dreams of an active lifestyle. Phase 3: Trial and error. “In phase 3, we ask ourselves: How can I make my life meaningful again?” says Moynes. “How can I contribute? The answer often is to do things that you love to do and do well.” This is a period of trial, error and experimentation. There could be many disappointments as you figure out what works for you. You might find yourself taking classes, trying new hobbies and expanding your social network. You may also decide to downsize or move. This is the phase I’m in now, trying out different things. My writing for HumbleDollar is one such experiment. Phase 4: Reinvent and rewire. This is the stage where we try to get the most out of retirement. Moynes encourages us to ask, “What’s the purpose here? What’s my mission? How can I squeeze all the juice out of retirement?” In this phase, you’re reinventing yourself to make meaningful contributions. This could be one of the happiest phases. I see retirees starting a blog, a business or a charity, or helping the needy and volunteering. There are many ways to make contributions that are deeply satisfying. To the above four phases, I’d add two more phases to cover the entire spectrum of retirement. Phase 5: Routine. As you get older, your energy level decreases. You pick a routine to follow every day. A daily walk, healthy eating and meeting friends become important. I see retirees enjoying the simple things in life. It’s a blessing if you can maintain good health. This is also the time to develop a plan to manage your next phase. Phase 6: End of active life. While you can skip one or more of the previous phases, going through the end of active life is almost inevitable. Your mobility may be affected, and you may need help managing daily activities. Even if you’ve prepared the necessary estate planning and financial documents, you must still come to terms with the fact that your time on earth is limited. The death of a spouse or a terminal health diagnosis are shocks you may need to bear. Major life changes can include moving closer to children or to a continuing care retirement facility. I’ve been lucky so far. The future, however, is impossible to predict—and no doubt many challenges lie ahead. Sundar Mohan Rao retired after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in Tampa in a 55-plus community. Mohan's interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. Check out his earlier articles. [xyz-ihs snippet="Donate"]
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How to minimize the caregiving burden on our adult children when we need help? 

I was reading an article focusing on the caregiving burden on adult children.   Shocking statistics: 63 million Americans — nearly 1 in 4 adults — now provide care to an adult with health or functional needs, or to a child with a serious medical condition or disability — a record high.   Nearly half of caregivers are struggling with finances.  More than 20% have taken on more debt, about a third have used up short-term savings, 30% have stopped saving, and roughly 20% are leaving bills unpaid or paying them late, according to the data. Return-to-office requirements are not helping.  More than 60% of caregivers are balancing their caregiving responsibilities while still employed. And half report they reduced hours, have taken unpaid leave, or even quit their job entirely. See link below:  https://finance.yahoo.com/news/63-million-adults-are-moonlighting-as-caregivers-with-little-support-130037767.html  We can minimize the caregiving burden for our children by moving to CCRC or assisted living, providing for long term care, downsizing and relocating closer to them, preparing a robust estate plan, and saving enough to provide for all future expenses. Even if we do these, the stress and emotional toll on children or relatives will still be significant. Many of you have experienced this already.  What should we do to make sure our children do not have to sacrifice so much when we need help due to our deteriorating health?  How are your family and friends managing to provide such help to their loved ones? 
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What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?

After making progress on estate planning, documenting financial records, and updating family history, it suddenly occurred to me that I should make a list of life lessons I have learned along my life journey.   Obviously, these life lessons are a lot more than strictly financial, but certainly they will contribute to overall success and a fulfilling life for the next generation.   I came up with these and put them in a document along with my financial records. Hopefully, someday it will help the next generations in my family.  Here is my list of 10.   1. Live your own dreams, not someone else's 2. Believe and invest in yourself 3. Focus on health, family, financial security and a purpose larger than yourself 4. Be a lifelong learner 5. Be self aware and know who you are and what makes you tick 6. Learn from failures and keep moving 7. Be positive to overcome life's many challenges 8. Give to receive 9. Start small, think big 10. Leave everyone better than you found them   Everyone has different life experiences and value systems. What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?      
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