Humans can’t sit quietly: We’re always fretting, always dissatisfied, always trying to make progress, always trying to divine the future.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles. From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements
After spending more than two decades building a successful landscaping business with his twin brother Nicholas, Andrew Clements retired in 2015 with a new appreciation for what matters most. Born in England, his essays draw on a life that has included growing up in England and Bangladesh, entrepreneurship, caregiving, family loss and travel. A regular HumbleDollar contributor, he enjoys tellingstories that remind readers life’s richest lessons often have little to do with money. Andrew is the older brother of HumbleDollar founder Jonathan Clements, whose life and legacy have inspired some of his most personal writing. He lives in Florida with his husband, Joey.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles. NO. 53: STRIVING toward our goals is usually more satisfying than achieving them. Yes, we should think hard about our goals—but we should also ask whether we’ll enjoy the journey.
HALO EFFECT. If we admire one feature of a person or object, the good feelings can spill over into other areas, hurting our judgment. We love the huge markdowns at the car dealership—and find ourselves buying a vehicle we don’t especially like. We purchase a fund that performs well—and end up owning other funds from the same company that aren’t nearly as good.
NO. 37: WE ATTRIBUTE our winners to our own brilliance, a phenomenon known as self-attribution bias. Meanwhile, we blame our losers on others—the neighbor, financial advisor or TV pundit who suggested the investment. This makes it harder to learn from our mistakes, while boosting our self-confidence and increasing the risk of future missteps.
MAKE END-OF-LIFE decisions. Ponder who should make medical and financial choices for you if you’re incapacitated. Draw up powers of attorney that reflect those wishes. Add a living will, detailing what life-prolonging medical procedures you want taken. Decide whether to donate your organs. Specify what sort of funeral you want. Choose an executor.
NO. 53: STRIVING toward our goals is usually more satisfying than achieving them. Yes, we should think hard about our goals—but we should also ask whether we’ll enjoy the journey.
I’VE BEEN IN LOVE with index funds for a long time, especially for a reason that doesn’t get enough attention. Lots of financial writers correctly praise index funds for their low costs, low turnover, low drama, massive and easy diversification, and numerous other good attributes.
But the No. 1 reason you should love index funds is they will keep you out of the hands of pushy, unethical financial salespeople. If Wall Street knows you’re committed to index funds,
Who Is the Victim of a Ponzi Scheme?
Age: Often 50 or older, particularly retirees looking for stable income or to preserve capital.
Education: Many victims are college-educated—some with advanced degrees.
Financial Status: Typically middle to upper-middle class, with meaningful retirement savings or liquid assets.
Investment Experience: Usually have some experience, but not deep technical knowledge—confident, but not always skeptical.
Sounds like a typical HumbleDollar reader, doesn’t it?
Each year, 20 to 40 Ponzi schemes are uncovered in the U.S.,
IT HAPPENED AGAIN. For the third time in two years, our credit card number was stolen. I learned this yesterday when I received the now-too-frequent question from Chase: “Do you recognize this gas station purchase for $1?” We live nowhere near the station in question, so I knew something was amiss.
I appreciate Chase’s diligence in identifying such transactions, and the fact that we won’t be held liable for any fraudulent charges. Still, I’ve grown weary of the whole process of cancelling credit cards,
I WAS SITTING AT MY computer one lunchtime when an email popped up from one of my credit card companies, saying I’d just purchased nearly $12,000 of jewelry at a store in Toronto. Within minutes, I was on the phone to the card company.
I was quickly referred to the fraud unit. I told my story. The company credited my account, cancelled the card and mailed me replacements. Weeks later, I had to complete a form,
WHERE WOULD WE BE without the internet, social media, and our smartphones and smartwatches? Can you remember a time when you couldn’t look up the answer to a trivia question at a cocktail party? I love answering the phone on my watch. It takes me back to Dick Tracy.
There I was, going along happily in my online universe—until I got an email from McAfee’s identity theft protection service alerting me that my phone number had been found on the dark web.
Sounds awful doesn’t it?
The Article in the WSJ was so painful to read but it led me to the awareness of how to protect myself and those I love.
in the article the problem was the spouse trusted the other spouse who was starting the long road of dementia. How do you protect your financial well being from something like that?
HumbleDollar readers, how do you protect yourselves? I need your wisdom.
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- Looking to make charitable gifts? Because the standard deduction is now so high, fewer taxpayers are able to itemize deductions, and that can limit the tax benefit of donations. But there’s still a way to gain a tax benefit: If you have appreciated stocks in a taxable account, you can donate them to a donor-advised fund. That would allow you to sidestep the capital gains tax that would otherwise be due if you sold those stocks. Many donor-advised funds have no minimums, making this an easy choice, in my view.
- If you believe your estate will top the estate tax threshold (about $15 million per person at the federal level, but much lower in certain states), then I would be sure to use the annual exclusion (currently $19,000 per donor and per recipient) to make incremental gifts to your heirs. That's because this annual exclusion is in addition to the lifetime exclusion and doesn’t carry over from year to year.
Note that these gifts don't have to be made in cash if the recipients aren't yet in a position to receive them. As alternatives, you could make contributions to a 529 account or to a trust for their benefit, and these contributions would count toward the annual exclusion.From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements
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- Once you file a 709 using any part of your lifetime exclusion amount the information from that year is then incorporated into any future year form 709 filing.
- If you ever file a form 709 and upon death an estate form 706 is required or the personal representative (aka executor/executrix) of the estate decides to file an estate 706 then information from the last gift tax return form 706 will be needed to prepare estate form 706.
- In 2026 we each have a current estate maximum exclusion of $15 million less the amount of taxable lifetime gifts above the annual exclusion. For the surviving spouse to have the current unified (combined taxable gift and estate) maximum $30 million lifetime estate 706 exemption then neither spouse could have made any taxable lifetime gifts. Further, for the surviving spouse to have a total $30 million lifetime exemption (including the deceased spouse's $15 million) a timely estate return for the first to die spouse must be filed and executor must elect to transfer the deceased spousal unused exclusion (DSUE) amount to the surviving spouse, regardless of the size of the decedent’s gross estate.
To avoid these issues most people strive to never make a taxable gift during life of a present interest gift above the annual gift exclusion amount that would require a filing of a federal gift tax return. Depending on where your domicile is you may also have state gift tax reporting obligations. If you as a surviving spouse expect your estate to be close to or above the current ($15M) exclusion then you may want to seek professional advice from someone with appropriate knowledge and experience in this area that will still be around when you are not. I hope this helps, Bill"Investing
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