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Taxes Season 3

"Rick, we processed 402 tax returns this year, and I believe only one client itemized."
- DAN SMITH
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Financial Planning

"30 basis points is 0.30%, and did you mean your annuities will increase payouts 50%?"
- Randy Dobkin
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The High Price of Success

""Poor education, the lack of needed workers and work ethic will probably break the US. For Example, Lewis and Clark University in Portland OR was named by Princeton University Review “Best West” list of schools they consider academically outstanding and well worth considering, this according to L&C. It has been reported that the college is hosting Antifa terrorism and radicalization training at a symposium on April 13-15. Topics are many, but include “What place does violent direct action have in social justice organizing?” Attendees are instructed to wear a mask to this “5th Annual Transformative Action and Abolition Symposium”." This is not education. This is radicalization and sedition...funded by the radical left. Lewis & Clark University is a private institution. Compare it to Hillside College, and you have a clearly defined "Problem vs. Solution" scenario. Keep in mind another thing..."Figures don't lie, but liars often figure.""
- Mike Lynch
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Avoid the noise, buy the market and stay invested

"Glad to see you made it to the "two-comma club" as well. Welcome, new member, and Congratulations. It really is a simple process. NOT easy, but simple."
- Mike Lynch
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Financial regrets about parenthood?

"I may have a mental block, but I cannot accept that money is ever the actual sole or primary reason. Humans are just not designed that way. Studies show that poor people have more children than higher income families."
- R Quinn
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“We did everything right.” Maybe not. Retirement income should not be an unpleasant surprise.

"I was fortunate to work with five unions who supported me in our efforts to communicate to their members on how to obtain the most value from their employee benefits. They wanted appreciation from members for what they had negotiated and we both wanted value for the cost of the benefits, the unions well aware they gave up some pay to obtain those benefits. We were both frustrated at the high level of indifference by many workers."
- R Quinn
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Resist the Urge to Act

BEFORE WE GET into it, a brief word. We lost Jonathan last year, and those of us who followed his work felt it more than we perhaps expected.  He had a saying that I always liked - that there are really only twenty stories in personal finance, and the financial industry spends most of its time telling them on repeat in slightly different hats. He was right, of course. He usually was. It struck me that a fitting tribute might be to take his core principles and do something with them, not quote him at length, but wrestle with the ideas in our own words, from our own lives. I've chosen "Resist the Urge to Act," and had a go below. If the idea appeals to any readers posting on the forum, I'd love to see others pick a principle, whichever one speaks to you, and write about it in your own voice. No need to be an economist. Just be honest. I suspect Jonathan would have approved of that approach more than most. There's a strange truth lurking at the heart of personal finance that nobody tells you about, possibly because it would put a large number of people out of work. The more urgently you feel you ought to do something with your investments, the more damage you will probably do by doing it. I find this deeply satisfying, not because I'm wise, far from it, but because it seems my instinct to do very little was correct all along. Vindication, when it arrives, should be savored. Jonathan Clements spent decades writing about money for the Wall Street Journal before founding HumbleDollar, which if you're reading this you already know, and if you don't, welcome, you've somehow stumbled into excellent company by accident. One of his core messages, boiled down to its purest form, was this: The secret to successful investing is to be comprehensively, almost aggressively boring. He had a list of principles, and one of them was deceptively simple: Resist the Urge to Act. I have a suspicion he knew it was one of the hardest ones, which is perhaps why he saved it for near the end of his various lists. Telling people to do nothing runs headlong into every instinct the modern world has carefully cultivated in them. The financial news industry has a business model, and it is not, I would suggest, your long-term wealth they're hoping to help. Their holy grail is your attention span, and attention without action doesn't keep the lights on. So urgency is manufactured. Alarm is engineered. The moment a headline about Federal Reserve policy or market volatility lands on your phone screen, the correct and sophisticated response, according to Jonathan, is to put the phone face-down and go and make a cup of tea. This is not what the headline wants you to do. The headline wants you to feel that failure to react immediately constitutes negligence. It doesn't. The information has already been digested, debated, and priced in by people who got it considerably earlier than you did. Acting on it now isn't smart. It's like arriving late to a party that ended an hour ago and wondering why nobody's offering you a stiff drink. Jonathan was a firm believer in market efficiency, the rather humbling idea that you, me, and most professional fund managers with their impressive offices and Bloomberg terminals, cannot reliably outthink the combined judgment of millions of other investors. Once you genuinely accept this, something might shift for you. You'll probably stop checking your portfolio three times before lunch. Which matters more than it might sound, because there's a fairly direct relationship between how often you look at your balance and how likely you are to do something regrettable with it. He had a line I've shamelessly adopted as my own: Your portfolio is like a bar of soap, and the more you handle it, the smaller it gets. My wife Suzie heard me say this recently and pointed out that I've never shown this level of restraint with actual soap. She's not wrong. But then again, I liberate hotel soap. The other temptation Jonathan warned against was treating the market as a hobby. There's a certain thrill, I understand, in hunting for the next great stock, the overheard tip, the sector everyone's talking about. The feeling that you've spotted something the rest of us turkeys have missed is a powerful one. He was fairly blunt on this point. If you want that kind of excitement, go to the cinema. Go to a casino. These are perfectly respectable venues for the willing suspension of rational judgment. Your brokerage account is not. The urge to act, dressed up as diligence and research, is still the urge to act. The actual solution is somewhat anticlimactic. Broad index funds, bought automatically and regularly, regardless of what the television talking heads are shouting about. When the market drops and the headlines turn an alarming shade of red, the correct response, the disciplined, intelligent, sophisticated response, is to turn the television off, close the laptop, and take yourself for a walk. Jonathan was clear on this point: Doing nothing, at the right moment, is one of the harder things an investor can do. It only looks like laziness from the outside. From the inside, when every instinct is screaming at you to move, to switch, to sell, to “do something,” holding still takes genuine effort. I have found, in my own modest experience, that retirement makes this philosophy considerably easier to live by. Urgency has a way of evaporating when you no longer have somewhere to be. The news cycle hums along without me. The market does whatever it decides to do. And I go for my walk. By strange coincidence, the halfway point often coincides with a bar serving decent Guinness. I consider this a stroke of luck. It seems I was a follower of Jonathan's advice for many years before I stumbled upon his name and writing. There's something to be said for arriving at the right answer through a combination of temperament and mild indifference. I'm choosing to call it wisdom. This piece was never meant to be anything more than one person's attempt to retell one of Jonathan's principles in his own words, a tribute of sorts, filtered through lived experience rather than expertise. The voice is mine, for better or worse. The wisdom, unambiguously, was his. There are more principles still sitting there, waiting. Each of them deserves exactly this kind of treatment, personal, honest, and a little bit imperfect. So, who's next? Because if there are no takers I'll have a pretty big task ahead of me.
Mark Crothers is a retired small business owner from the UK with a keen interest in personal finance and simple living. Married to his high school sweetheart, with daughters and grandchildren, he knows the importance of building a secure financial future. With an aversion to social media, he prefers to spend his time on his main passions: reading, scratch cooking, racket sports, and hiking.
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Stock Tokens

RECENTLY, The Wall Street Journal ran a story about a new type of investment known as a digital stock token. For now, they aren’t available in the U.S., but they’re coming soon, so it’s worth taking a closer look. What are stock tokens? At the most basic level, they’re a technology designed to make stock market investing quicker and easier than it is today. With tokens, trading won’t be limited to traditional business hours. Instead, investors will be able to trade 24/7. And token trades will settle instantly, allowing investors to deposit or withdraw funds from an investment without the overnight delay imposed by traditional stock exchanges.  An additional benefit: Tokens will allow investors to purchase fractional shares. To see how this would work, consider Microsoft. Today, its share price is around $370. Through the token system, though, an investor with a modest budget could gain exposure to Microsoft with just $5 or $10. There will also be index-based tokens, so an investor could gain exposure to the S&P 500, for example. In many ways, stock tokens are the equivalent of cryptocurrencies but for stocks, allowing investors to trade more quickly and easily. That’s their key appeal, and it’s part of the broader trend toward digitizing the financial system. Along the same lines, a number of retailers are pursuing so-called stablecoins as an alternative to costly credit card networks. Stock tokens do carry risk, though. You may recall an episode that occurred in 2022, when a digital currency called TerraUSD, which was designed to maintain a fixed value of $1, suddenly lost most of its value. In that case, there was a breakdown in the algorithm that was supposed to prevent Terra from dipping below $1, and that caused the equivalent of a run on the bank. Supporters of stock tokens will tell you that Terra’s failure can be attributed to its primitive structure and that today’s technology wouldn’t be similarly vulnerable. That may be true, but stock tokens carry other potential vulnerabilities. For starters, they’re complex and rely on a significant amount of financial engineering. Unlike a share of stock which is simply an ownership stake in a business, tokens are more of a synthetic financial instrument. That’s why the recent Journal write-up referred to them as “digital avatars.” When you buy a token, you aren’t buying an actual share of stock. It’s more like a chip issued by a casino or a gift card issued by a retailer. It looks like real money, and under ordinary circumstances, it probably will function like real money. But in times of stress, they may not perform as expected. The financial firm Robinhood, which has already created a family of stock tokens for international investors, acknowledges another risk: Because tokens don’t represent actual shares of stock, they carry what’s known as counterparty risk. Under the hood, tokens are actually financial contracts, which means that the party on the other side of a given contract needs to remain solvent in order for a token to maintain its value. On its website, Robinhood includes this disclosure: “Investors may lose up to the full amount of their invested capital due to market conditions or the insolvency of Robinhood.” To be sure, counterparty failure is usually a low risk, but it isn’t zero, and actual shares of stock don’t need disclaimers like this.  Even under ordinary circumstances, stock tokens’ prices likely won’t move in lockstep with actual share prices. That’s for a few reasons.  First, because tokens aren’t real shares, they don’t pay dividends. While that might not seem like a significant factor, dividends do add up. Over the past 15 years, they’ve accounted for about 20% of the total return of U.S. stocks. Also, stock tokens don’t carry the voting rights associated with real shares. That might also seem insignificant to everyday investors, but because it is important to larger, institutional investors, it means that tokens will probably always trade at a bit of a discount to real shares. A final risk is one that is longer term but much more serious: Stock tokens are built on blockchain technology, and that means they’re vulnerable to hacking. Of most concern is the fact that blockchain technologies rely on cryptography to secure investors’ holdings. While blockchain encryption has never been cracked, advances in computing power—and specifically, a technology known as quantum computing—could one day compromise a blockchain. Most experts believe this is 10 or more years away, but companies including Google and IBM are actively working on it, so it’s worth bearing in mind. The bottom line: In thinking about this new innovation, I’d lean on a concept known as Lindy’s law. This is a rule of thumb which postulates that the future life expectancy of an idea is proportional to its current age. In other words, the longer an idea has stood the test of time, the more likely it is to continue to stand the test of time in the future. That’s how I’d look at stock tokens. They might or might not be a good idea, but it’s too soon to tell. And since the benefits they offer are more in the category of convenience rather than investment performance, I see no particular need to own them. For that reason, it might make sense to wait and watch until any bugs are worked out.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
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Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

"Yesterday I picked up some slightly bruised peppers from the reduced section at the greengrocers — 10 cents each. After oven roasting them for dinner last night, I finished them with a drizzle from a single-origin Italian olive oil — $100 a bottle."
- Mark Crothers
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The Myth of the Default Caregiver

"Doug, good job taking care of your parents. My wife died due to complications of dementia four years ago. I was able to take care of her at home myself until the last five months when I had to have in home help. My wife and I had always been very close, but we became much closer during the time she required my help. My experience as a caregiver was as you describe, it felt like an honor and privilege. Even when she didn't know my name or that I was her husband, she knew I was someone who loved her and was caring for her. Circumstances vary for everyone, but for us, me and my wife, it was a life changing experience and I am glad I didn't miss it."
- Mom & Dad Schneider
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Carrying Humble Dollar Forward

"That's very true -- bigger problems. Recall that it took from 1929 to about 1945 for that come back. Sixteen years for someone retiring in '29 would usually have been a lifetime."
- John D.
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The Home Ownership Gamble

"The $600K and $375K figures didn't include the various incidentals you mentioned. That said, as far as home improvements went, I would guess I invested only about $6K over the four years I lived there. I painted the entire house (interior and exterior) myself. That alone made a huge difference in the appearance of the home. It was a horrible shade of green on the inside and outside when I purchased it. I went with neutral colors because I figured it would likely increase the curb appeal when I went to sell. Total cost of the paint and supplies was less than $1,000. The house needed a new roof, a new furnace and a few other minor things. I assumed when I sold it, I would have to pay for at least a portion of the needed 'repairs'. As it turned out, I didn't because the buyer waived all inspections and repair requirements. When I purchased the house, I was reasonably sure I would live there for less than four years. At the time I bought it, my best guess was that I would need to sell if for about $400K to essentially 'break even' (recoup my entire 20% down payment). Obviously, selling it for $600K (even with real estate fees), I not only recouped my initial down payment, but walked away with a tidy additional sum. Had the market not gone crazy during COVID, I very likely would have ended up losing money. I just happened to get very lucky with my timing."
- kristinehayes2014
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Taxes Season 3

"Rick, we processed 402 tax returns this year, and I believe only one client itemized."
- DAN SMITH
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Financial Planning

"30 basis points is 0.30%, and did you mean your annuities will increase payouts 50%?"
- Randy Dobkin
Read more »

The High Price of Success

""Poor education, the lack of needed workers and work ethic will probably break the US. For Example, Lewis and Clark University in Portland OR was named by Princeton University Review “Best West” list of schools they consider academically outstanding and well worth considering, this according to L&C. It has been reported that the college is hosting Antifa terrorism and radicalization training at a symposium on April 13-15. Topics are many, but include “What place does violent direct action have in social justice organizing?” Attendees are instructed to wear a mask to this “5th Annual Transformative Action and Abolition Symposium”." This is not education. This is radicalization and sedition...funded by the radical left. Lewis & Clark University is a private institution. Compare it to Hillside College, and you have a clearly defined "Problem vs. Solution" scenario. Keep in mind another thing..."Figures don't lie, but liars often figure.""
- Mike Lynch
Read more »

Avoid the noise, buy the market and stay invested

"Glad to see you made it to the "two-comma club" as well. Welcome, new member, and Congratulations. It really is a simple process. NOT easy, but simple."
- Mike Lynch
Read more »

Financial regrets about parenthood?

"I may have a mental block, but I cannot accept that money is ever the actual sole or primary reason. Humans are just not designed that way. Studies show that poor people have more children than higher income families."
- R Quinn
Read more »

“We did everything right.” Maybe not. Retirement income should not be an unpleasant surprise.

"I was fortunate to work with five unions who supported me in our efforts to communicate to their members on how to obtain the most value from their employee benefits. They wanted appreciation from members for what they had negotiated and we both wanted value for the cost of the benefits, the unions well aware they gave up some pay to obtain those benefits. We were both frustrated at the high level of indifference by many workers."
- R Quinn
Read more »

Resist the Urge to Act

BEFORE WE GET into it, a brief word. We lost Jonathan last year, and those of us who followed his work felt it more than we perhaps expected.  He had a saying that I always liked - that there are really only twenty stories in personal finance, and the financial industry spends most of its time telling them on repeat in slightly different hats. He was right, of course. He usually was. It struck me that a fitting tribute might be to take his core principles and do something with them, not quote him at length, but wrestle with the ideas in our own words, from our own lives. I've chosen "Resist the Urge to Act," and had a go below. If the idea appeals to any readers posting on the forum, I'd love to see others pick a principle, whichever one speaks to you, and write about it in your own voice. No need to be an economist. Just be honest. I suspect Jonathan would have approved of that approach more than most. There's a strange truth lurking at the heart of personal finance that nobody tells you about, possibly because it would put a large number of people out of work. The more urgently you feel you ought to do something with your investments, the more damage you will probably do by doing it. I find this deeply satisfying, not because I'm wise, far from it, but because it seems my instinct to do very little was correct all along. Vindication, when it arrives, should be savored. Jonathan Clements spent decades writing about money for the Wall Street Journal before founding HumbleDollar, which if you're reading this you already know, and if you don't, welcome, you've somehow stumbled into excellent company by accident. One of his core messages, boiled down to its purest form, was this: The secret to successful investing is to be comprehensively, almost aggressively boring. He had a list of principles, and one of them was deceptively simple: Resist the Urge to Act. I have a suspicion he knew it was one of the hardest ones, which is perhaps why he saved it for near the end of his various lists. Telling people to do nothing runs headlong into every instinct the modern world has carefully cultivated in them. The financial news industry has a business model, and it is not, I would suggest, your long-term wealth they're hoping to help. Their holy grail is your attention span, and attention without action doesn't keep the lights on. So urgency is manufactured. Alarm is engineered. The moment a headline about Federal Reserve policy or market volatility lands on your phone screen, the correct and sophisticated response, according to Jonathan, is to put the phone face-down and go and make a cup of tea. This is not what the headline wants you to do. The headline wants you to feel that failure to react immediately constitutes negligence. It doesn't. The information has already been digested, debated, and priced in by people who got it considerably earlier than you did. Acting on it now isn't smart. It's like arriving late to a party that ended an hour ago and wondering why nobody's offering you a stiff drink. Jonathan was a firm believer in market efficiency, the rather humbling idea that you, me, and most professional fund managers with their impressive offices and Bloomberg terminals, cannot reliably outthink the combined judgment of millions of other investors. Once you genuinely accept this, something might shift for you. You'll probably stop checking your portfolio three times before lunch. Which matters more than it might sound, because there's a fairly direct relationship between how often you look at your balance and how likely you are to do something regrettable with it. He had a line I've shamelessly adopted as my own: Your portfolio is like a bar of soap, and the more you handle it, the smaller it gets. My wife Suzie heard me say this recently and pointed out that I've never shown this level of restraint with actual soap. She's not wrong. But then again, I liberate hotel soap. The other temptation Jonathan warned against was treating the market as a hobby. There's a certain thrill, I understand, in hunting for the next great stock, the overheard tip, the sector everyone's talking about. The feeling that you've spotted something the rest of us turkeys have missed is a powerful one. He was fairly blunt on this point. If you want that kind of excitement, go to the cinema. Go to a casino. These are perfectly respectable venues for the willing suspension of rational judgment. Your brokerage account is not. The urge to act, dressed up as diligence and research, is still the urge to act. The actual solution is somewhat anticlimactic. Broad index funds, bought automatically and regularly, regardless of what the television talking heads are shouting about. When the market drops and the headlines turn an alarming shade of red, the correct response, the disciplined, intelligent, sophisticated response, is to turn the television off, close the laptop, and take yourself for a walk. Jonathan was clear on this point: Doing nothing, at the right moment, is one of the harder things an investor can do. It only looks like laziness from the outside. From the inside, when every instinct is screaming at you to move, to switch, to sell, to “do something,” holding still takes genuine effort. I have found, in my own modest experience, that retirement makes this philosophy considerably easier to live by. Urgency has a way of evaporating when you no longer have somewhere to be. The news cycle hums along without me. The market does whatever it decides to do. And I go for my walk. By strange coincidence, the halfway point often coincides with a bar serving decent Guinness. I consider this a stroke of luck. It seems I was a follower of Jonathan's advice for many years before I stumbled upon his name and writing. There's something to be said for arriving at the right answer through a combination of temperament and mild indifference. I'm choosing to call it wisdom. This piece was never meant to be anything more than one person's attempt to retell one of Jonathan's principles in his own words, a tribute of sorts, filtered through lived experience rather than expertise. The voice is mine, for better or worse. The wisdom, unambiguously, was his. There are more principles still sitting there, waiting. Each of them deserves exactly this kind of treatment, personal, honest, and a little bit imperfect. So, who's next? Because if there are no takers I'll have a pretty big task ahead of me.
Mark Crothers is a retired small business owner from the UK with a keen interest in personal finance and simple living. Married to his high school sweetheart, with daughters and grandchildren, he knows the importance of building a secure financial future. With an aversion to social media, he prefers to spend his time on his main passions: reading, scratch cooking, racket sports, and hiking.
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Stock Tokens

RECENTLY, The Wall Street Journal ran a story about a new type of investment known as a digital stock token. For now, they aren’t available in the U.S., but they’re coming soon, so it’s worth taking a closer look. What are stock tokens? At the most basic level, they’re a technology designed to make stock market investing quicker and easier than it is today. With tokens, trading won’t be limited to traditional business hours. Instead, investors will be able to trade 24/7. And token trades will settle instantly, allowing investors to deposit or withdraw funds from an investment without the overnight delay imposed by traditional stock exchanges.  An additional benefit: Tokens will allow investors to purchase fractional shares. To see how this would work, consider Microsoft. Today, its share price is around $370. Through the token system, though, an investor with a modest budget could gain exposure to Microsoft with just $5 or $10. There will also be index-based tokens, so an investor could gain exposure to the S&P 500, for example. In many ways, stock tokens are the equivalent of cryptocurrencies but for stocks, allowing investors to trade more quickly and easily. That’s their key appeal, and it’s part of the broader trend toward digitizing the financial system. Along the same lines, a number of retailers are pursuing so-called stablecoins as an alternative to costly credit card networks. Stock tokens do carry risk, though. You may recall an episode that occurred in 2022, when a digital currency called TerraUSD, which was designed to maintain a fixed value of $1, suddenly lost most of its value. In that case, there was a breakdown in the algorithm that was supposed to prevent Terra from dipping below $1, and that caused the equivalent of a run on the bank. Supporters of stock tokens will tell you that Terra’s failure can be attributed to its primitive structure and that today’s technology wouldn’t be similarly vulnerable. That may be true, but stock tokens carry other potential vulnerabilities. For starters, they’re complex and rely on a significant amount of financial engineering. Unlike a share of stock which is simply an ownership stake in a business, tokens are more of a synthetic financial instrument. That’s why the recent Journal write-up referred to them as “digital avatars.” When you buy a token, you aren’t buying an actual share of stock. It’s more like a chip issued by a casino or a gift card issued by a retailer. It looks like real money, and under ordinary circumstances, it probably will function like real money. But in times of stress, they may not perform as expected. The financial firm Robinhood, which has already created a family of stock tokens for international investors, acknowledges another risk: Because tokens don’t represent actual shares of stock, they carry what’s known as counterparty risk. Under the hood, tokens are actually financial contracts, which means that the party on the other side of a given contract needs to remain solvent in order for a token to maintain its value. On its website, Robinhood includes this disclosure: “Investors may lose up to the full amount of their invested capital due to market conditions or the insolvency of Robinhood.” To be sure, counterparty failure is usually a low risk, but it isn’t zero, and actual shares of stock don’t need disclaimers like this.  Even under ordinary circumstances, stock tokens’ prices likely won’t move in lockstep with actual share prices. That’s for a few reasons.  First, because tokens aren’t real shares, they don’t pay dividends. While that might not seem like a significant factor, dividends do add up. Over the past 15 years, they’ve accounted for about 20% of the total return of U.S. stocks. Also, stock tokens don’t carry the voting rights associated with real shares. That might also seem insignificant to everyday investors, but because it is important to larger, institutional investors, it means that tokens will probably always trade at a bit of a discount to real shares. A final risk is one that is longer term but much more serious: Stock tokens are built on blockchain technology, and that means they’re vulnerable to hacking. Of most concern is the fact that blockchain technologies rely on cryptography to secure investors’ holdings. While blockchain encryption has never been cracked, advances in computing power—and specifically, a technology known as quantum computing—could one day compromise a blockchain. Most experts believe this is 10 or more years away, but companies including Google and IBM are actively working on it, so it’s worth bearing in mind. The bottom line: In thinking about this new innovation, I’d lean on a concept known as Lindy’s law. This is a rule of thumb which postulates that the future life expectancy of an idea is proportional to its current age. In other words, the longer an idea has stood the test of time, the more likely it is to continue to stand the test of time in the future. That’s how I’d look at stock tokens. They might or might not be a good idea, but it’s too soon to tell. And since the benefits they offer are more in the category of convenience rather than investment performance, I see no particular need to own them. For that reason, it might make sense to wait and watch until any bugs are worked out.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
Read more »

Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

"Yesterday I picked up some slightly bruised peppers from the reduced section at the greengrocers — 10 cents each. After oven roasting them for dinner last night, I finished them with a drizzle from a single-origin Italian olive oil — $100 a bottle."
- Mark Crothers
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Manifesto

NO. 64: AS WE GROW wealthier, we should seize the chance to save on insurance—by raising deductibles, lengthening elimination periods and perhaps dropping some policies entirely.

humans

NO. 60: WE TEND to ignore low-probability events. But low risk isn’t the same as no risk, so it’s crucial to weigh the potential financial impact. For instance, it’s unlikely we’ll suffer an illness or disability that prevents us from working. But if that happened, the financial consequences could be devastating, which is why disability insurance can be a smart buy.

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FREEZE YOUR CREDIT—which you can now do at no cost. This will prevent data thieves from taking out loans and credit cards using your identity. But it also means you’ll need to contact the three credit bureaus and unfreeze your credit temporarily whenever applying for credit. Sound like a hassle? As an alternative, consider setting up a fraud alert.

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DIDEROT EFFECT. Just bought a new sofa? Suddenly, the coffee table and the living room rug look a bit scruffy, and you find yourself also replacing those things. This phenomenon is known as the Diderot Effect, after the 18th century French philosopher Denis Diderot, who discovered that buying one new item often leads to a flurry of other purchases.

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Manifesto

NO. 64: AS WE GROW wealthier, we should seize the chance to save on insurance—by raising deductibles, lengthening elimination periods and perhaps dropping some policies entirely.

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Not So Simple

MY WIFE AND I HAVE divided household duties over our 36 years of marriage. I’m responsible for the upkeep of anything mechanical. Lori has the last word on almost everything else. In essence, my wife presides over functions that make the household a “home,” while I take credit and blame for keeping the nuts and bolts operational.
I also hold primary responsibility for trafficking the family’s money. I pay bills, ensure accounts are reconciled,

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Final Arrangements: A Learning Curve

As I’ve written here before, my mother-in-law has been dealing with Alzheimer’s, and this last year has been a constant learning curve of navigating long-term care policies, trying out in-home caregivers (pretty major fail), and finally a memory care residential facility.
Well, this past week was a new challenge. My MIL passed away suddenly on Tuesday night. We got a call from the memory care facility that she’d fainted several times,  so they’d called an ambulance.

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In My Absence

EVER SINCE I RETIRED, mornings are the best part of my day. I always go for a long, quiet walk before sunrise. The only person I usually see is Mark, walking his dog. It’s a great way to start my day. By the time I get home, my wife is up and we have breakfast together.
Last week, I had coffee with Eric, Rob and Craig. We met at a Starbucks in the neighborhood where I used to live.

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Signing up for pre-planned funeral services: Is it worth it?

The last few days have been hectic, attending a funeral for a friend as well as an information session by a local funeral home.
I learned a lot from the presentation on funeral services. Pre-planned funerals can ease the burden on survivors. They claim it is cost effective by locking in current prices. Services these days can be extensive and cover death even on a cruise ship or a foreign country.  They also offer incentives (discounts,

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Letting Go

Most of us like to be in control. I certainly do. But what about controlling how our heirs use the money we bequeath?
That’s a question I’ve had to face. I’m hoping both of my 30-something children will use my bequest to bolster their long-term financial future, adding the money to their portfolio and perhaps using a portion to buy new homes.
Both have good financial habits, and the money they’ll receive could—if used sensibly—mean they’ll be far wealthier in their 60s than I am.

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Good for Them?

BETWEEN INVESTMENTS and our two homes, Connie and I have accumulated a respectable net worth. I don’t expect we’ll need those assets to live on. What will happen to our money?

It’ll continue to grow, I hope. I want to be sure there’s sufficient wealth if, say, we need to pay for long-term care.
I want the income generated by our investments to be available to Connie, should I predecease her. She’ll also receive Social Security and survivor benefits from my pension.

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Spotlight: Bond

Where and When Do You Spend?

This is not a political post, but the basis is a political action. Friday, Feb. 28, was the so-called Nationwide Economic Blackout. My wife and I decided to participate. For us, this wasn't about specific retailers. We simply made no discretionary (or mandatory) purchases that day. It was not a difficult commitment. Thinking about this over the weekend, I realized that the result of that day wasn't anything special for us. There are many days that we spend absolutely nothing. By my count, we spent nothing on approximately half of the days in February, but that was only because we traveled in February. The percentage was much higher in January. All our bills are set to automatic payment, so we don't even think about a portion of those days that we do make payments. Our vehicles and house are paid for. Insurance and tax bills are paid in full when due. We just don't do a lot of shopping. If I'm in a clothing store, it's only after a lot of kicking and screaming. I'm a jeans and tee shirt guy - and I'm not hard on clothes, so they tend to last forever. If I'm in a store willingly, it's likely to be a hardware store, woodworker supply, or maybe an auto parts store. I make a lot of family grocery store runs. My biggest personal spending weaknesses?  Meeting friends for lunch a few times per month, and I still meet friends to play pool once a week. I still purchase music CDs and still listen to them. Oh, and the occasional bottle of bourbon. Most days my wife and I pursue our retirement activities, which are largely cost-free. I've written about them enough, so I won't repeat them here. My point is that we are not living lives…
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Friends at Every Turn

MY RETIREMENT IN July 2020 came at a stressful time. I was recovering from knee replacement surgery and we were in the midst of the pandemic. Luckily, I had physical therapy goals to meet, and I’d already purchased a huge supply of reading material. TV, music and my laptop were also there to distract me. In addition, my wife had retired eight months before, so we had each other for company. As the pandemic stretched on, we invited friends to visit. We met on our uncovered open-air porch. Summers in North Carolina can be hot and buggy affairs, but our porch features the afternoon shade of a big poplar tree, and we had several large fans. As summer progressed to fall and winter, we added a propane porch heater and a collection of electric blankets to the mix, so everyone could be as comfortable as possible. All this was part of a conscious strategy. I make a big effort to stay connected with friends and family, and I don’t necessarily wait for someone to contact me. The fact is, social connections are crucial to a happy retirement. Loneliness has been described as an epidemic, and its health impact has been compared to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. I’m often the organizer of get-togethers because I enjoy them, plus many of my friends are still working, so for me it’s not a huge effort to send out a couple of emails to organize a small gathering. In fact, I’ve learned that there are ample opportunities for a vibrant social life. For instance, I often reserve Thursday nights to play pool with a collection of friends who I mostly met during my time as a Boy Scout leader. We spend a few hours talking about kids, grandkids, activities, vacations and current events,…
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Whole Life Insurance Worked for Me

Many people are convinced that buying term life insurance is the best option from the standpoint of both affordability and coverage. However, I bought whole life insurance a long time ago. The agent represented MONY, and at the time MONY was a very highly rated insurance company. I got married (first time) in 1978. My employer at the time provided bare minimum benefits, and I thought insurance to protect my young wife, who was still in school, was a good idea. It was a small policy for either $10K or $20K. In 1978 that was real money. Then in 1986 I called the agent to tell him there was a baby on the way and wanted to talk about additional protection. The following discussions resulted in my rolling the original policy into a larger one for $150K. My first son was born in early 1987. Son number two arrived in late 1989. I do not remember the amount of my monthly payments for this new policy, but they were not insubstantial. I also remember that as young parents we rarely had much money left over at the end of each month. In retrospect, the purchase of the whole life policy resulted in an enforced savings plan. Even though it was not a great investment, both my insurance coverage and cash value increased each year. Our family went on with our lives. I continued to make payments on the policy, but the various employers I had during that time provided life insurance in multiples of my salary. I even had disability insurance. I saw no reason to increase my policies with MONY, even though the agent checked-in several times a year. In addition to his life insurance credentials, he also became a financial advisor and wanted to administer my Vanguard IRA.…
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DST Transitioning

This has nothing to do with HD finances, but much to do with HD living. Every six months or so we see newspaper or online articles questioning the value of Daylight Saving Time (DST). Some argue that it should never be implemented, while others say it should be permanent, with no changes. Others like it the way it is. Before I retired, DST really had a minimal impact on me. Except for a short stint on a construction site, my career positioned me in an office fulltime. I had to transition my sleeping habits a bit, and that’s really it. I modified my daytime activities such as exercise, yardwork, or consideration for sleeping neighbors, but that was easy. Now that I’m retired, I don’t really care about DST at all, as I can pick my time for important activities whenever I wish. Before retirement, I got up each morning at 6 AM for 40+ years. I’ve been retired for 4 years. I still wake up early, and that’s OK with me. I enjoy the early morning solitude. I try to be quiet for the benefit of my still-sleeping wife. There is one member of our family that has great difficulty with DST. Liza, our dog, is currently waking an hour early (based on the human clock). This impacts me, as I am the main provider of early morning services such as walks, food & water, and medication. I realize it’s been barely a week since we went off DST, but she is stubbornly hanging on to “her” habits of when to go out and when to be fed. This lack of transition especially impacted me this morning, as I was sleeping very soundly when she barked with insistence about an hour earlier than I wished. This caused a change from…
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Choosing the right executor/trustee

Creating a will or trust is an important part of financial planning. Consider how the asset allocation of your retirement investments might change with age, perhaps being aggressive when you’re young and becoming more conservative as you get older. When you create your will as a young person with a growing family, your concerns are different from when you are older and evaluating your ability to retire. For example, my first wife and I created wills that provided for each other if one of us died early, and to provide for our children if both of us died. In addition to assessing financial considerations, it required us to identify who would raise our children if we were both out of the picture. Fortunately, none of those circumstances occurred. My second wife and I have created wills and trusts that protect each other. I am five years older than my wife, and women on average live longer than men. I will likely die before she does, so my will and trust take that into account. But the trusts also consider that we both have children from prior marriages. We want to make sure our assets are not comingled, ensuring that my wife’s children receive her financial legacy, and my children receive mine. This sounds complicated, but it really isn’t. My wife and I keep our finances separate except for a joint checking account and a few credit cards. Our home is jointly owned with the right of the survivor to stay in the home. Eventually our children will receive the proceeds from the sale. I served as executor and trustee to my father’s estate. My mother predeceased my father by five years, so he was executor and trustee of her estate. After my father died, I found that he had not…
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How Did You Announce Your Retirement?

Ken Cutler’s question about his retirement status made me think about how my retirement started. I’m curious about what path you all followed. As I approached retirement in 2020, I considered how much notice to give my employer. I had worked for the company for 20 years. I was not a manager, but I was an expert technical professional and had carved out a very specialized niche within the organization. Substantial organizational changes were implemented during the first three months of the calendar year and as a result I had three different managers over a very short span of time. Because I had questions about exit benefits, vacation pay, 401(k) handling, and other details, I decided to discuss my thoughts with HR. My HR contact set a time for a confidential discussion. I told her I planned to provide notice three to four months in advance, and leave on the last Friday of June 2020, which would be the 26th. I was very surprised to hear her response. She said I did not owe my employer that kind of notice. I should give notice two weeks before I plan to leave. Employee loyalty was misplaced for anyone not working in the executive suite. The company could choose to lay me off at any time with no warning. Performance and salary reviews would occur during that span of time, and I would lose the incremental increase if they knew I was leaving. She also recommended I wait one more week, because leaving on July 3rd meant I would be paid for the July 4th Holiday on the following Monday. I scheduled knee replacement surgery to happen very early in the year. The pandemic put that on hold, but I was still able to get the surgery done in May. I was…
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