Make That Choice
David Gartland | Apr 15, 2024
I'M NOT THE SMARTEST guy. That used to bother me when I was in school. The smart guys were making their teachers happy. They were named to the National Honor Society. They went to the best colleges. They seemed to have it all. As I got older, and began to make more and more decisions on my own, I had to come up with a method that would allow me to make good decisions, given the limited gray matter I was working with. My strategy: I like to narrow down my choices, identify the key variables, avoid decisions with really bad potential outcomes—and then get on with my life. Remember, every decision comes with risk—the risk of being wrong—and every decision will lead to an outcome, good or bad. The first thing I do is settle on my priorities. What am I trying to achieve? I then think about the options available to me, and try to narrow that list. I believe limiting choice reduces anxiety. If there are fewer choices to consider, it’s also easier to study each choice and make a good decision. Among the choices I’m considering, I think about what’s the worst that could happen if I chose one option over another—and I then avoid the one with the worst possible outcome. What if the choices seem pretty much equal? I don’t worry too much about which one I choose. I once spoke with a guy who was affiliated with my employer. He was trying to decide how to spend his money. He said his options were to buy a new truck or remodel his home. I asked him which would be best for his relationship with his wife. He chose the remodeling project. Identifying the most important variable is the key to making good decisions.…
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David Gartland | Jan 7, 2025
THERE ARE TWO TYPES of mistake I make: those that are unintentional and those where I should have known what would happen. After an unintentional mistake, I’m perplexed by what went wrong. I might say to myself “I’ll never do that again” or perhaps “what the heck just happened?” These are genuine mistakes, and I try to learn from them. By contrast, stupid mistakes are those that I should have known would occur. No matter how many college degrees we have or how many years on the job, we all make stupid mistakes. What counts as a stupid mistake? We know we’re doing something wrong, and yet we still go ahead. A stupid mistake happens when we don’t pay enough attention to what we’re doing. When I take a cookie sheet out of a hot oven without bothering to put on oven mitts, that’s a stupid mistake. I might grab the tray one-handed using a dish towel. Too often the result is singed fingers on my ungloved hand. Another example of a stupid mistake—which fortunately hasn’t happened to me—is glancing down at a text on your cellphone while driving. The scenery changes pretty fast at 60 mph. In an instant, you can be in trouble. An error that I make regularly is forgetting to save all documents before shutting down my computer. I should know better by now. Forgetting my wedding anniversary is another stupid mistake. After all, it falls on the same date every year. To be sure, intentionally doing something that results in a less-than-satisfactory outcome isn’t always a stupid mistake. For instance, making an investment decision that doesn’t work out can be classified as risk-taking, not stupidity. We knew it might not work in our favor, but we decided to “take a chance” in the hope of…
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David Gartland | Feb 18, 2025
ONE OF MY FIRST employers allowed me to buy savings bonds through withholding from my weekly salary. It seemed like magic. Ever since, automatic payroll deductions have been an important part of my financial life. My payroll deductions expanded to include my health insurance and my 401(k) contributions. It just felt good to me, kind of like the practice of regularly giving 10% of your income to the church. On the other hand, payroll deductions are also how we pay taxes, which doesn’t seem like such a blessing. This culminates with the annual ritual of filing my income tax return. That’s when I learn whether I’ve withheld enough. I’ve never used a preparer or accountant to calculate how much tax I owe. I prefer to avoid paying someone else to do something I can do myself. That’s my fallback position for many such chores. If I can do it myself, I will. I’ll pay someone for the harder things, like fixing my teeth or repairing my car. Besides, when I do my own taxes, the government checks my work. If I make an arithmetic error, I get a letter from the IRS or my state’s tax department. It points out my mistake and informs me how much more I owe or—on a good day—how much more the government owes me. To be honest, I’m not sure whether my do-it-yourself method has saved me money. If I miss a deduction to which I’m entitled, I’m paying an extra tax for my stubborn independence. I started feeling more confident that I was getting my fair share of all the tax breaks when I began using TurboTax. The software asks a lot of questions that I’d never thought about to help me explore possible ways to save on taxes. Yet there’s still a…
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David Gartland | Mar 25, 2024
WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER, my father and I went to the local mall. I don’t recall why we went shopping together, but I do remember going into a Tandy craft store and buying a customizing kit for leather belts. Tandy Corp. would later become well known as the owner of RadioShack. On the way home, my father and I were talking about the kit, and I made the comment, “It’ll be a good way to kill time.” My father shot back, “Never kill time.” Later that year, he died of a massive heart attack. While I never forgot what my father said, I wish I could tell you I took it as inspiration and went on to accomplish great things, but I never did. I did use time well, but I also wasted time, killed time and have blanks in my memory where I’m not sure how I used my time. But that’s changed. Today, I pay more attention to the ages at which people die. Suddenly, people my age and younger are dying of natural causes. Just yesterday, I went to the dentist for a checkup. As soon as I sat in the examination chair, he told me that his wife recently died, and yet previously she’d almost never been sick. Such stories have changed my perspective on life and money. We can always make more money. But we can’t make more time, and we never know how much more we have. This makes time the more precious commodity. Still, we should carefully consider how we use both money and time. Money can be saved, invested and spent. My wife and I aren’t great investors. But we’ve been good savers and thoughtful spenders. My wife’s family were blue collar. When she was growing up, her family’s budgeting process…
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David Gartland | Nov 10, 2023
THERE ARE CERTAIN expressions I’ve heard during my lifetime which, for one reason or another, have stayed with me. In a previous article, I related how a coworker encouraged me to “keep on keeping on” when confronted with a challenge, and how Napoleon Hill’s expression “burning desire” struck me as a great way to describe a goal worth seeking. Here’s another expression I’ve never forgotten: “The other side sucks.” I’ve been a race car fan ever since my older brother introduced me to automobile racing in my youth. I especially enjoy Formula One racing. These international racing events gather the best of the best—mechanics, engineers, drivers and the sponsors who pay for it all. One of the Formula One race tracks I’ve visited is in Watkins Glen, New York. In the 1960s, Watkins Glen was the only race track that hosted a Formula One race in America. There were others in the years that followed but, at the time, Watkins Glen was the only one. The racing community that sponsored the event, along with the owners of the racing teams, were sophisticated. The same couldn’t be said of the fans at Watkins Glen, who weren’t necessarily from society’s upper crust. One area of the Watkins Glen track was known as “the bog.” It was a valley within the racing grounds that would become muddy following rain storms. This area became a gathering place for fans, who took great joy in directing late arrivals to this muddy area, especially after it was dark. Upon entering the bog, many cars would get stuck. Amid the resulting melee, cars would often be damaged. This led to Formula One’s sanctioning body to stop holding races at “the Glen.” On one particular night at the bog, two separate and distinct groups formed on each side…
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David Gartland | Apr 22, 2024
I WAS A PART-TIME instructor in public speaking for Dale Carnegie & Associates during the 1980s and early 1990s. I taught a course at the Downtown Athletic Club in lower Manhattan. At the time, my wife and I were living in northwestern New Jersey, and we each took the bus into Manhattan to our respective jobs. The course was given after work, so I had to take a late bus home. This meant my wife needed to drive to the bus depot to pick me up. One night, I arrived at the bus stop, but my wife wasn’t there. I called our condo, thinking she’d fallen asleep, but she never picked up the phone. This was prior to cell phones. I called repeatedly, thinking that, if she had fallen asleep, the ringing phone would wake her up. But she never picked up. Just after I made yet another call, a police car pulled up and my wife got out of the back seat. She greeted me with, “Hello, honey.” The cop greeted me by asking, “Sir, do you have a license and registration for your car?” I said “yes,” and presented both. He then informed me that my wife didn’t have a valid driver’s license. Like me, my wife grew up on Long Island, New York. She’d tell me about the cars she owned and the adventures she had driving around Long Island. When we got married, the only question I asked her was, “Do you know how to drive a stick shift?” She said “yes.” This was important since I owned one car and she didn’t own any. I assumed she had a license. How else could she have driven a car on Long Island? It turns out she did have a license when she was living on Long Island.…
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