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Buying a car in retirement

"Car geek here. It's always fascinating to hear others reactions to the car buying process and the new vs. used decision. My wife and I have different thoughts and needs, so we end up buying personal transportation, her car and my car. Interesting story about our most recent purchase, November of 25. We bought a RAV4 XSE Hybrid AWD for my wife. We paid MSRP plus a modest doc fee after using the internet best "out the door price" method. There were exactly zero new cars to test drive that met these requirements in the entire metropolitan area of St Louis MO. Not a small town. So we test drove a used one, and ordered new. Hybrids are in demand and command a higher price these days. Here's the interesting part, why we bought the car. Our younger son drove a low mileage pickup truck, but was tired of the parking hassle and gas consumption. Our older son wanted a pickup truck, but could only afford a high mileage one. So we traded our 6 year old luxury SUV (Acura RDX) for the truck with our son, based upon an agreed up wholesale value that lined up as the same value. He's been happy with the luxury, smaller size and better mileage. Our other son agreed to buy the truck from us (in advance) at a favorable interest rate (4.1%) with a payment he could work with, he sold his old car and used the funds as a down payment. After financing the new RAV4 through our credit union, we ended up paying off the car this Spring, using taxable account funds. The truck buying son sold his house and paid off the car which we used to offset some of the funds withdrawal. Everyone got what they wanted!"
- John Verlautz
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The Paradox of Wealth

"I’ve been thinking about this since last night, I, too, have facilitated my granddaughter’s doing some special, expensive things. But I wonder if money or even the free time it makes possible, is really key here. Grandparents can take the kids to public parks, help catch fireflies in the backyard, or help them make a cake. One year after flying my granddaughter to NYC to see Annie on Broadway, we spent some time at my kitchen table playing with her plastic ponies. I sort of think the latter might have been more enjoyable for her."
- Marilyn Lavin
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Will Your Death Double Your Spouse’s Tax Bill?

"We actually started the conversions because our kids are likely to be in their prime earnings years when they inherit. But since we’ve started the conversions the money we put into the IRAs has tripled in value — and I doubt we are the most efficient investors. So right now about half of what we would have had in IRAs is in Roths earning excellent tax free returns, while the IRAs continue to grow, but the continuing conversions and liberal use of QCDs are not pushing our RMDs into the stratosphere."
- Marilyn Lavin
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IRMAA & late filing of tax returns

"Besides jail/fines, be aware, ​unlike private creditors (like credit card companies or medical providers) who must sue you and win a court judgment before they can touch your paycheck or bank account, the IRS does not need a court order to seize your property, freeze your bank accounts, or garnish your income."
- Steve
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Every Writer Has a Beginning: Organ Transplant Fails

"Thank you William. It means a great deal to hear that. Writing these stories has helped me discover even more about Jonathan, and it’s been wonderful to share those discoveries with the people who appreciated his wisdom and kindness. I’m grateful you’re one of them."
- Andrew Clements
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About that inflation in retirement

"isn’t the fact that the vast majority of women didn’t work outside the home in 1935 and therefore needed the protection of spousal benefits a demographic fact that now needs to be revisited?"
- Marilyn Lavin
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Retirement, One Year On

"Sorry, Laura, I just saw this! I love what you said about the benefits of supporting a spouse’s creative endeavors! It’s definitely on the list of things I want to think about and try out!"
- DrLefty
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The Making of Jonathan Clements

WHEN READERS THINK of my younger brother Jonathan Clements, they often picture the longtime Wall Street Journal columnist or the founder of HumbleDollar. They remember the clear financial advice, the thoughtful essays and the quiet wisdom that helped millions make better decisions with their money. But every writer has a beginning. As I've been researching Jonathan's life over the past several weeks, I've found myself drawn less to the career everyone knows and more to the people who helped shape it. Before the books, the columns and the countless readers, there was a curious teenager discovering that he loved to write. Jonathan's journey began long before Wall Street, long before Forbes and long before HumbleDollar. It began with a school magazine at Bryanston School in Dorset, England. As a teenager, Jonathan joined the staff of Saga, the school magazine. There he wrote an article criticizing Bryanston's decision to spend money on a new pipe organ while other parts of the school needed attention. Years later, Jonathan looked back on that article with characteristic humor, saying it earned him "the enmity of a host of people." But he also said something far more revealing. That article, he believed, "was my entrée to becoming a journalist." More importantly, Jonathan had discovered not just that he enjoyed writing, but that he enjoyed asking difficult questions. Reading those early Saga articles today, what strikes me isn't simply Jonathan's talent. It's how familiar his voice already sounds. Even as a teenager, he questioned accepted wisdom with humor rather than hostility, weighed competing arguments fairly and cared deeply about priorities. Years later, readers would come to know him for helping them decide what mattered most in their financial lives. Looking back, those instincts were already there. Journalism also ran in the family. Our father began his career as a journalist before becoming an economist, and Jonathan often said his example inspired him to pursue financial journalism. After leaving Bryanston, Jonathan had almost a year before beginning his studies at Cambridge, our father's alma mater. During that time, a family friend, Mrs. Dolezal, helped him secure a reporting job at the Potomac Almanac, a small community newspaper in suburban Washington. For the next eight months, Jonathan did what young reporters often do. One day he covered education. The next, sports. Then police, then business. It wasn't glamorous work, but it taught him the fundamentals of reporting. Years later, Jonathan would describe those eight months as "the most fun and the most educational experience I had in journalism." It wasn't a large newspaper, but it gave a young reporter the opportunity to learn every aspect of the profession. Even more importantly, it introduced him to the paper's editor, Leslie Leven. Decades later, after writing for Forbes, The Wall Street Journal and founding HumbleDollar, Jonathan was asked about the people who had influenced his career. His answer surprised me. Of everyone he had worked with, he singled out Leslie, describing her as "probably the most important mentor I had." Those words say as much about Jonathan as they do about Leslie. No matter how successful he became, Jonathan never forgot the people who had believed in him before anyone else did. Cambridge came next, but by then journalism was no longer simply an interest. Jonathan later admitted that during one term he attended only four lectures because he was so immersed in editing the student newspaper, Varsity. Somewhere along the way, writing had stopped being a hobby and had become the work he wanted to spend his life doing. After Cambridge, Jonathan joined Euromoney in London, his first full-time journalism position. It was another stepping stone that eventually led him to New York and Forbes, where he discovered the world of personal finance writing. The years that followed are well known. After Forbes came nearly two decades at The Wall Street Journal, where Jonathan became one of the country's most respected personal finance columnists. He later spent six years at Citigroup as Director of Financial Education, helping investors better understand their financial lives. But the entrepreneurial spirit never left him. In 2016, he founded HumbleDollar, creating not simply another financial website, but a community built on thoughtful conversation, generosity and the belief that money is ultimately a means to a richer life, not an end in itself. Millions of readers came to trust his judgment and his remarkable ability to explain complicated ideas with clarity, humanity and compassion. Growing up, I don't think any of us could have imagined where Jonathan's curiosity and love of writing would eventually lead. He was simply my younger brother; curious, thoughtful and always eager to learn. Looking back now, the path seems almost inevitable. At the time, it was anything but. But as I've pieced together Jonathan's early years, I've come away with a different appreciation of his career. I always knew where Jonathan finished. Only recently have I begun to appreciate where, and with whom, it all began. Long before Jonathan became a mentor to countless writers and readers, someone had mentored him. A family friend opened a door. An editor patiently taught him his craft. A small community newspaper gave him a chance. We often celebrate the finished product. The successful journalist, the respected author, the trusted voice. Yet behind almost every accomplished life are people whose names are seldom remembered, people who quietly open doors, encourage talent and believe in someone long before the rest of the world notices. Jonathan never forgot them. Perhaps that's why, years later, so many aspiring writers would tell similar stories about him. He answered emails, encouraged new voices, edited with kindness and opened doors for others just as doors had once been opened for him. In the end, Jonathan's story isn't simply about becoming one of the world's most respected financial journalists. It's also about the people who quietly shaped that journey. Mrs. Dolezal opened the first door and Leslie Leven helped Jonathan find his footing as a young reporter. Those early opportunities gave him the confidence to pursue the career that followed. Every accomplished life begins somewhere. Jonathan's began with people who saw potential in a young man long before the rest of the world did.   After spending more than two decades building a successful landscaping business with his twin brother Nicholas, Andrew Clements retired in 2015 with a new appreciation for what matters most. Born in England, his essays draw on a life that has included growing up in England and Bangladesh, entrepreneurship, caregiving, family loss and travel. A regular HumbleDollar contributor, he enjoys tellingstories that remind readers life’s richest lessons often have little to do with money. Andrew is the older brother of HumbleDollar founder Jonathan Clements, whose life and legacy have inspired some of his most personal writing. He lives in Florida with his husband, Joey.
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A Letter 40 Years Later: What Mrs. Dolezal Remembered

"Darelyn, thank you so much. Your words truly touched me. I miss Jonathan every day, and I know many others do as well. If this story reminded readers that the greatest impact we can have is often through simple acts of kindness and by simply being present for one another, then it accomplished exactly what I hoped. Mrs. Dolezdal's letter reminded me of that lesson in a way I'll never forget. Thank you for such a thoughtful and generous comment."
- Andrew Clements
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What Remains: Money and Me

"Thank you Brian for taking the time to write such a thoughtful review. I smiled when you said it felt like Jonathan was personally guiding you through life, that's exactly how so many of us experienced him, whether we knew him personally or only through his writing. Like you, I found the final chapters especially powerful. Knowing what lay ahead, he still chose to write with clarity, honesty and hope rather than fear. That's a remarkable legacy to leave. I'm especially grateful that you're recommending Money and Me to your friends and adult children. If Jonathan could still speak to new readers today, I think that's exactly what he would hope for. Thank you again for keeping his voice alive."
- Andrew Clements
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Buying a car in retirement

"Car geek here. It's always fascinating to hear others reactions to the car buying process and the new vs. used decision. My wife and I have different thoughts and needs, so we end up buying personal transportation, her car and my car. Interesting story about our most recent purchase, November of 25. We bought a RAV4 XSE Hybrid AWD for my wife. We paid MSRP plus a modest doc fee after using the internet best "out the door price" method. There were exactly zero new cars to test drive that met these requirements in the entire metropolitan area of St Louis MO. Not a small town. So we test drove a used one, and ordered new. Hybrids are in demand and command a higher price these days. Here's the interesting part, why we bought the car. Our younger son drove a low mileage pickup truck, but was tired of the parking hassle and gas consumption. Our older son wanted a pickup truck, but could only afford a high mileage one. So we traded our 6 year old luxury SUV (Acura RDX) for the truck with our son, based upon an agreed up wholesale value that lined up as the same value. He's been happy with the luxury, smaller size and better mileage. Our other son agreed to buy the truck from us (in advance) at a favorable interest rate (4.1%) with a payment he could work with, he sold his old car and used the funds as a down payment. After financing the new RAV4 through our credit union, we ended up paying off the car this Spring, using taxable account funds. The truck buying son sold his house and paid off the car which we used to offset some of the funds withdrawal. Everyone got what they wanted!"
- John Verlautz
Read more »

The Paradox of Wealth

"I’ve been thinking about this since last night, I, too, have facilitated my granddaughter’s doing some special, expensive things. But I wonder if money or even the free time it makes possible, is really key here. Grandparents can take the kids to public parks, help catch fireflies in the backyard, or help them make a cake. One year after flying my granddaughter to NYC to see Annie on Broadway, we spent some time at my kitchen table playing with her plastic ponies. I sort of think the latter might have been more enjoyable for her."
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

Will Your Death Double Your Spouse’s Tax Bill?

"We actually started the conversions because our kids are likely to be in their prime earnings years when they inherit. But since we’ve started the conversions the money we put into the IRAs has tripled in value — and I doubt we are the most efficient investors. So right now about half of what we would have had in IRAs is in Roths earning excellent tax free returns, while the IRAs continue to grow, but the continuing conversions and liberal use of QCDs are not pushing our RMDs into the stratosphere."
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

IRMAA & late filing of tax returns

"Besides jail/fines, be aware, ​unlike private creditors (like credit card companies or medical providers) who must sue you and win a court judgment before they can touch your paycheck or bank account, the IRS does not need a court order to seize your property, freeze your bank accounts, or garnish your income."
- Steve
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Every Writer Has a Beginning: Organ Transplant Fails

"Thank you William. It means a great deal to hear that. Writing these stories has helped me discover even more about Jonathan, and it’s been wonderful to share those discoveries with the people who appreciated his wisdom and kindness. I’m grateful you’re one of them."
- Andrew Clements
Read more »

About that inflation in retirement

"isn’t the fact that the vast majority of women didn’t work outside the home in 1935 and therefore needed the protection of spousal benefits a demographic fact that now needs to be revisited?"
- Marilyn Lavin
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Retirement, One Year On

"Sorry, Laura, I just saw this! I love what you said about the benefits of supporting a spouse’s creative endeavors! It’s definitely on the list of things I want to think about and try out!"
- DrLefty
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Manifesto

NO. 12: WE SHOULD focus less on the odds of something happening and more on the consequences. We likely won’t die during our working years. But if we did, how would our family cope?

Truths

NO. 88: LIVING standards rise with per-capita economic growth—typically 1½ percentage points a year faster than inflation. This is why retirees often feel pinched, even if their income climbs with inflation. It also helps explain why family fortunes disappear. The investment returns generated can’t keep up with taxes and the family’s spending desires.

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ASSET LOCATION. After deciding which investments to buy, we should consider our asset location. What’s that? It involves divvying up investments between taxable and retirement accounts. If investments generate large annual tax bills—think active stock funds and real estate investment trusts—we’ll likely want to hold them in a retirement account.

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VENTURE ABROAD. Many U.S. investors shy away from foreign shares, leery of the currency swings and the weaker legal protections. But adding overseas stocks can lower the risk of a U.S. stock portfolio, because foreign shares sometimes post gains when U.S. shares are suffering. HumbleDollar’s advice: Allocate a third to half of your stock portfolio to foreign shares.

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Manifesto

NO. 12: WE SHOULD focus less on the odds of something happening and more on the consequences. We likely won’t die during our working years. But if we did, how would our family cope?

Spotlight: Borrowing

Keeping It Private

FAMILY CAN BE A wonderful asset. Your parents, siblings and adult children might help with home repairs, offer free advice based on their professional expertise and take care of the dog while you’re on vacation.
When the circumstances are right, I think there’s an opportunity to take this even further. For instance, earlier this year, I provided my daughter with a private mortgage, which allowed her to purchase her first home. There aren’t many people I’d strike that deal with,

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Refi or Not?

MY WIFE AND I BOUGHT our first home in the mid-1980s. We were thrilled to get an 8% mortgage, though we had to pay three points—an upfront fee equal to 3% of the loan amount—to get that rate. Many of our friends had bought a few years earlier and were paying 14%, a common occurrence back then, according to Freddie Mac data.
We kept our eyes open for opportunities to refinance our high rate.

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Debt Despite Myself

I HATE DEBT. A very happy day was when we paid off the mortgage. I’d rather walk on broken glass than pay a penny of interest on my credit cards. But there have been a few exceptions to my usual rule, all involving car purchases.
The first was many years ago when I reached what I thought was an all-cash deal on a new car. The salesman surprised me when he offered the same price with 0% financing.

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Winning the Debt Game

Our earliest days as independent fledgling adults, working our first job, living in our own place, are hard to forget. I still recall my first apartments in surprising detail. As I now watch my daughter live through her own such experiences, these memories are flooding back.
Mine are mostly happy, as I lived and worked through the first part of my lifetime happiness smile curve. There were a few rare exceptions. Buying my first car was one of them.

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You May Be Surprised

IF YOU’RE LIKE MANY people, you’ll cringe when I mention reverse mortgages. The perception is that they’re loans of last resort for desperate retirees who don’t have any other options. But I suggest keeping an open mind. I believe reverse mortgages can be a shrewd way to unlock liquidity during retirement.
Reverse mortgages have evolved significantly, and retirees are often pleasantly surprised when they learn how today’s loans work. They find that many of the negatives they’ve heard are no longer true.

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Double Trouble

PEOPLE OFTEN ACT foolishly and then desperately try to justify their financial sins. A case in point: Those who take on too much debt, can’t get it paid off by retirement—and end up servicing huge mortgages and other loans long after their paychecks have come to an end.
Cue the tap dancing. The indebted start waxing eloquent about the virtues of the mortgage-interest tax deduction and how it’s smart to pay the bank 4% while they invest the borrowed money at 10%.

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Spotlight: Wasserman

Resolved: New Journeys

WE RETIRED AND MOVED to Spain in 2018. We were excited and eager to explore our new home and a new culture. We traveled a lot, mostly in Spain, but also the rest of Europe and Asia. But since the pandemic started, our travel has been limited. Indeed, COVID-19 sped our return to Dallas. I’m happy that we’re now closer to our sons, and can see family and friends in person. But having lived in Dallas for 28 years, I already know the city well. Still, I plan to keep exploring—but this year I’ve resolved to take my retirement journey in two different directions. First, during the ultra-strict Spanish lockdown in early 2020, I discovered my love of drawing and painting, and even set up online art shops. Creating art has helped me deal with the stress of the pandemic and of my mother's situation. It has become my way of turning off the outside noise. This year, I’ve resolved to continue to draw and paint in my sketchbook every day. Whether that will translate into making more money isn’t important to me, though I’ll admit that I get excited and enjoy the extra validation that comes with selling a piece of art. My second journey for 2022 is returning to graduate school. Like my husband Jim, I was recently admitted to the Master of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies program at the University of Texas at Dallas. My focus will be gender studies and economics. Why? I spent my career in the male-dominated world of finance and banking, and I’ve written about my experiences and the challenges women face. I’ve also been interviewed about the gender pay gap. It’s an issue I’m passionate about and want to explore in depth. Classes are set to start in late January. I hope that, by drawing…
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Riding It Out

IN MID-MARCH, I WENT into lockdown with optimistic thoughts. Perhaps it would give me time to perfect my Spanish, master classical guitar, write more blog posts, start online courses and even begin the book that Jim and I often discuss writing together. I’ve accomplished none of my grand plans. Instead, I’ve been consumed by reading COVID-19 news. I’ve slept poorly and eaten too much. I remain perpetually exhausted. I struggle to focus and lack creativity. Everything takes twice as long as usual. My sense of time and motivation has completely gone out the window. Before I retired in 2018 and we moved to Spain, I worked from home for seven years, so I’m no stranger to spending most of my time in the house. But it’s harder to stay home when you’re retired, without the need to make day-to-day work decisions and interact with colleagues. I’m trying hard not to feel guilty about my mood or lack of accomplishments. Apparently, all this is normal. My feelings of grief are, it turns out, part of a greater collective grief. There have been countless articles about coping with the recent stock market downturn and about how to keep ourselves entertained at home. But very few cover the mental health aspects of today’s stay-at-home orders. The months ahead will be rough on everybody. What to do? Here’s how Jim and I are trying to sustain ourselves through these hard times: 1. Acknowledge loss and grief. According to David Kessler, an expert on grief, understanding the stages of grief is a key place to start. The stages aren’t linear and may not happen in the same order. Jim and I have discussed our emotional responses. As I write this, I flip between sadness and acceptance, while Jim is alternating between anger and acceptance. There…
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Buen Camino

ON APRIL 3, MY HUSBAND Jim and I were among 262 pilgrims who made our way into Santiago de Compostela to receive an official pilgrim’s certificate for completing the required distance along one of the famous El Camino’s several routes—the most popular of which is some 500 miles. We were now certified peregrinos, or pilgrims. Because it was early in the season, ours was one of the slow days for Camino completion. Last August, 2,000 certificates per day were issued. Walking El Camino is gaining in popularity not just with Spaniards, but also with folks from around the world. In 2018, there were 327,328 certificates issued, compared to just 2,491 in 1986. This begs the question: Why do people commit themselves to such an arduous walk, which can take weeks to complete? In an age that provides convenience, comfort, speed and efficiency, thousands from around the globe walk hundreds of miles, enduring considerable physical demands, long periods of solitude, and deprivation from most modern comforts and conveniences. I can’t answer that question for all pilgrims. But I can honestly say that it was one of the most memorable experiences of my life. The certificate at the end was, of course, nice to receive, but that was the least of it. In The Pilgrimage, Paulo Coelho wrote, “It is the road that teaches us the best way to get there, and the road enriches us as we walk its length.” El Camino enriched me in three ways: I had the feeling of being fully present. I recently retired after working more than 25 years in the business world, where I had to be simultaneously mindful of the past, the current situation and the future. The simple act of walking, putting one foot in front of the other for mile after mile, hour after hour, brought…
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Saving Happiness

RESEARCHERS HAVE spent decades probing the connection between money and happiness. For instance, a much-cited 2010 study by academics Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton found that folks tend to feel happier the more money they make—but only up to a point, which they estimated to be about $75,000 a year. But using only income to measure the link between money and happiness is incomplete. Another study, entitled “How Your Bank Balance Buys Happiness,” analyzed the connection to people’s “cash on hand.” The researchers found that having more money in checking and savings accounts was associated with higher levels of life satisfaction. But similar to the income studies, so-called liquid wealth appeared to be subject to diminishing returns, with the impact on life satisfaction tapering off as folks have more. Which brings me to tennis. We recently moved from Granada, Spain, to Alicante, which is about 220 miles to the east and right on the Mediterranean. Alicante has milder weather that’s conducive to outdoor sports all year round, so most apartment complexes have tennis courts. My husband Jim accused me of looking for our new apartment based on the condition of the tennis courts first and the apartment second. Yes, I love playing tennis. I also have a fondness for tennis analogies. I think saving money is like playing good tennis defense, while making more money is like playing offense. There are plenty of YouTube videos of the best winning shots, but relatively few that focus on the defensive skill that’s needed to keep the ball in play. Playing defense isn’t flashy. Yet Novak Djokovic, arguably the world’s top player, is renowned for his defensive play and for his ability to turn defense into offense. Along the same lines, making more money, moving up the corporate ladder and building your own…
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Fast Forward

HOLDING DOWN LIVING expenses is one part of the equation in achieving financial independence. But the other part is diligently and consistently saving and investing money. On that score, my husband Jim and I enjoyed four “lucky breaks” that accelerated our push for financial independence. Together, they helped catapult us into early retirement in just 15 years. 1. The Great Recession may have caused much short-term financial harm, but it also offered a great long-term opportunity. When the stock market crashed, we continued to max out our 401(k) and 403(b) plans, as well as contributing to 529 plans for our two boys’ college costs. We put these various accounts 100% into stock mutual funds, taking advantage of the lower share prices. In 2017, as we prepared to retire, I moved some money out of stocks and into bonds. I was stunned by how much we had earned. 2. During the Great Recession, I mentally prepared for the possibility that one of us would get laid off—most likely me, because I worked for a bank. That never happened. Both of us kept our jobs. Still, we strove to live as though we had just one income. When I got a raise or Jim earned extra from teaching summer school, we saved the money. We didn’t starve ourselves or skip family vacations. But we also didn’t pony up for a new car or new bathroom or new kitchen. 3. One of our sons received a full scholarship to one of the top public universities in Texas. That made college far less of a financial burden—and, as a result, both our boys were able to graduate from university with no debt. In fact, we even had some money left over in a 529 account. We owed taxes on the account’s earnings, but we were able…
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Reversing Course

THREE YEARS AGO, Jim and I decided to retire to Spain. We were attracted by the promise of excellent health care, warm weather, low cost of living and travel throughout Europe. From there, we’d also be able to fly with relative easy to both the U.S. and Asia, allowing us to maintain family connections. All of this gave us a great quality of life for almost three years. Then COVID-19 hit. Like everyone else, we had to say goodbye to many activities, events and travel. More important, we were cut off from family and friends. During the lockdown, we had more time to explore new things. But we also had time to reflect on the things we’d lost that had always been there, invisibly supporting us. We came to realize three aspects of life were essential. First, it’s important for us to feel connected to loved ones and to reach them quickly in case of emergency, even if we were separated by thousands of miles. With the pandemic raging, Jim and I realized that if both of us became seriously ill in Spain or if one of our sons had an emergency back in the U.S., it was impossible for them to get to Spain and almost impossible for us to arrange a quick trip back. The unavailability of quick travel “in the event” was disturbing. Second, living in a community with friends is crucial to our emotional well-being. It’s no surprise that the disruption strained mental health for everyone, causing increased stress and anxiety. Loneliness became more widespread. I’m fortunate to have a good companion like Jim. A few of the expats we knew felt such loneliness that they were willing to risk infection to meet others. Third, as an expat, it isn’t easy to form deep friendships—those relationships…
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