How do we know we have enough money? When money isn’t something we regularly fret about.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.NO. 58: IF WE HAVE a long time horizon, we should aim to be owners—by buying our cars, our home and a diversified stock portfolio. The latter will make us part owners of companies large and small.
NO. 124: THE WORLD’S net bond position is zero. For every dollar that someone owes, there’s a dollar owed to someone. In other words, if we eliminated all debt, the world would be no wealthier—because, for every debtor who is now debt-free, there would be a lender who’s now poorer. That said, an economy can suffer if some folks end up too deeply in debt.
BOUNDED RATIONALITY. There are limits on how much information we can process, because of time constraints and cognitive limitations, so we take mental shortcuts. We're more likely to buy stocks that are in the news, we rely on rules of thumb and we only make financial decisions when issues are brought to our attention. Result: Our choices often aren’t optimal.
NO. 62: WE'RE OFTEN blindsided by risks we fail to consider. This can hurt us with investments, when we discover there are pitfalls we’re oblivious to, and with our homes, when we’re hit with problems we’re unaware of. Often, we can protect ourselves by diversifying, buying insurance or taking other precautionary steps—but, to do that, we first need to realize we’re at risk.
NO. 58: IF WE HAVE a long time horizon, we should aim to be owners—by buying our cars, our home and a diversified stock portfolio. The latter will make us part owners of companies large and small.
ONE DAY BACK IN 2012, I received a life-changing windfall. Contrary to what you might imagine, however, that day was not very different from the day before it, or the day after. It went something like this: Woke up. Went to work. Came home. Thought about ways to splurge. Ultimately gave up and went to bed.
In other words, there was no visit to the Ferrari dealership, no trip to Las Vegas,
There is a Boglehead Conference in October. Has anybody attended previous conferences? I’m considering attending and I’d appreciate your hearing about your experience. Did you find it valuable?
Thanks,
Jackie
WHEN I MARRIED FOR the first time, I didn’t think much about it. I was in my 20s. My new husband (and future ex-husband) and I had already been living together for nearly a decade. Neither of us had any items of real value, so the financial implications of joining our lives meant very little. Marriage, it seemed, was just the obvious next step in our relationship.
When I married for the second time,
TODAY’S FINANCIAL lesson: We can manage risk—but terrible stuff can still happen. This thought, of course, was prompted by my recent cancer diagnosis. But the notion is also all too relevant to money management.
But let’s start with health matters. In 1995, I began training for my first marathon, which I ran in May 1996 in Pittsburgh and finished in just under three hours. Ever since, I’ve been a bit of an exercise nut.
IN THE RUNUP TO OUR marriage, everyone had advice for us—on everything from communication to sex to our finances. But some of the best advice we received came from a church leader my husband had known for years. He gave us a list of topics to discuss. These discussions resulted in some financials wins, while the conversations we avoided led to struggles.
Needs vs. wants. My husband and I each made a list of what we considered to be our needs and wants.
A number of events over the past few months have me thinking about aging, mortality, legacy, frailty, and – of course – financial planning. These events included attending funerals, preparing tax returns (ours and dozens of others), visiting old friends and distant family, minor traffic accidents, winter doldrums, and the recent discussions on HumbleDollar on the unique estate planning needs of childless retirees. Recent market volatility may have played a small role.
My wife and I have a lot of real-world experience caring for aging and infirm parents,
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