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Jonathan and me

"Dick, I use High-Deductible Plan G (HD-G) as my Medigap policy. I love it, primarily because of the $34/mo. premium (saving about $100/mo. in comparison to regular Plan G) and paying only the 20% coinsurance out-of-pocket for Part B physician visits. The deductible on this plan acts more like a ceiling than a floor, as a group health plan's deductible would. My personal analysis shows that as long as I can stay out of the hospital no more than every 5 years or so, I'll come out ahead. No guarantees, of course, but a good risk IMO. I'm wondering why you don't also use an HD-G Medigap plan given your comment below, recopied here: "The reality is relatively few meet even meet their deductible in a given year and many for several years in a row, but they do pay higher premiums.""
- Dan Malone
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College

A Million Words to a Million Dollars?

"Oh dear Mike, that certainly pushed your buttons! He’s a decent young chap, just passionate. To be fair, it was an awful foul. He gave the opposition a goal kick instead of an obvious penalty, though the principle was also on the pitch to help the poor boy hobble off. Thanks for your childhood story and the good wishes for my grandson’s team. They struggle in school soccer as it’s a very small school, but his club team is flying high: eight wins from eight and top of the league! He’s a fast, physical right winger, and one of Ireland’s top teams has approached him about joining their youth academy. Congratulations on 50 years of refereeing, I'm sure you've seen all sorts of behaviour over the years!"
- Mark Crothers
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Taxes

Education Freedom Tax Credit

"Does the donor have any control over which school gets the money?"
- Marilyn Lavin
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Life Events

Choosing a CCRC (Life PlanCommunity)

"I wonder whether this might be more typical than CCRC advocates might imagine. I have a friend who had. to place her husband in a highly regarded memory care facility this past spring. Things seemed to be going well— until a couple of weeks ago, when he started running a temperature and his blood sugar level spiked— he’s also a diabetic. He was taken to the ER, and from there admitted to the hospital. After a few days, he was ready to be released from the hospital, but the doctors decided he needed a very high level of rehab— beyond that provided by the PT offered by the memory care. He is now at a rehab facility. When and if he’ll be able to go back to Memory care is up in the air."
- Marilyn Lavin
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From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements

Investing

My Investment Sin

I'LL CONCEDE IT'S HARD to justify—but I don’t believe it’s 100% unjustifiable. At issue: my strategy of overweighting stocks during big market declines. I…
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Investing

Investment Adviser Performance-Based Compensation

"Thanks for commenting Mark. I agree with your statement that most HD readers will avoid such a financial wolf product dressed in passive index clothing. Yet such funds continue to be created for wrong headed purposes and will unfortunately will be inappropriately sold. I am two chapters from finishing a 2021 book titled "Trillions" authored by Robin Wigglesworth, a long time finance correspondent for the Financial Times, which is a comprehensive history of the creation and growth of index funds ( both mutual and ETFs ). The book has reinforced my expectation that marrying performance based fees inside a "index" fund wrapper is just another bet to sell a trendy stock picking methodology for the financial benefit of the seller."
- William Perry
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Spending

Is an 18% Service Charge a TIP?

"We were recently in the UK for two weeks. During that entire time we never touched, nor even saw a British pound. Used the card for everything. BTW to those that are not aware of the “scam” you should choose the pay in local currency when given the option. The reason: If you choose to pay in your home currency, the merchant’s bank handles the conversion right at the point of sale. They set their own exchange rate instead of using the market rate."
- David Lancaster
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Taxes

Time to QCD

"Great minds/HD readers think alike. I too have been working on my list of charities for annual donations. I’m working on paring down the number and increasing the amounts given. I’m grateful to the schools I attended but I know that every year they have a new crop of potential donors graduating so now I’m leaning more towards the local organizations whose good work I see every day: my church, our little museum, the non-profit daycare, fire department, etc. This is my second year using QCDs. My IRA custodian provides me with a separate checkbook just for this purpose, like what Dick and the Connie do."
- Linda Grady
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Cars

Saved 85 Bucks

"My brother in law who is an experienced mechanic and race car driver says to let the turbo engines idle a little while before shutting them off. Too bad I forget more than remember to do so."
- R Quinn
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Careers

The Value Of Trust

"“keeping our promises, and taking pride in our work” seems to be sorely missing these days. I sound like an old codger. "
- David Lancaster
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Taxes

2026 Charitable Deductions

"I agree. I'm a big fan and have learned so much from the Kitces site.The Kitces article covered the topic in its usual thorough fashion, with excellent examples and figures. I would note that, unlike HumbleDollar, Kitces' writers are finance professionals, and generally write for other professionals. But it is one of my go-to sites for information."
- Rick Connor
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Happiness

The Number Is Not The Answer

YEARS AGO, while practicing law, I was a frequent contributor to Humble Dollar. I loved Jonathan Clements’s vision for the site - a corner of the financial universe built on clarity, frugality, and the quiet dignity of living within one’s means. Then my life took a sharp pivot. I left legal practice to teach gifted-and-talented students and coach varsity athletics at a public magnet high school. Almost immediately, my submissions here dried up. I was consuming entire days guiding brilliant teenagers through complex history, breaking down match film, and grading papers long past sunset and on weekends. I wrote to Jonathan with genuine regret, apologizing for going dark on such a wonderful enterprise. His reply was quintessential Jonathan: he explained to me with characteristic, succinct warmth that his own adult child was a teacher, adding that he wasn’t sure there was a higher calling on Earth. He was right about the calling. But what nobody warns you about a calling is its capacity to consume you whole if you let it. The Cliff Edge This past year, the math simply broke. Between high-load AP teaching, head coaching, and the relentless calendar of high school athletics, I was regularly clocking 17- to 18-hour days during soccer season. My central nervous system finally redlined badly. Worse, I realized with a gut punch that I had missed nearly the entire senior year of my oldest son while running on that treadmill. This realization hit me at his graduation when I felt physically exhausted and unable to enjoy what should have been one of the proudest moments of my life. I was determined to make it up to him in whatever way I could (for example, we are visiting him today at college, and we go often to see him in San Antonio - a 90-minute drive from Austin). Moreover, I will not repeat this mistake and will enjoy the years I have left with my two high-school-aged daughters. With teenagers preparing to leave the nest and a close family member facing severe illness, I stepped away. I took a sabbatical. Maybe it will delay our retirement slightly, but as I will express further below, I am not sure I will ever really retire. The Void Financial planners love to reduce retirement to a single milestone: "The Number." The spreadsheets run 10,000 Monte Carlo simulations, the house is paid off, the withdrawal rates are dialed in, and the industry assures you: You have arrived. You are safe. At 45, I had not retired in the traditional sense, but I had stepped off the cliff of full-time professional identity because my body told me I needed to. And what I discovered in the sudden, unanticipated quiet is something many retirees spend years agonizing over without having the vocabulary to describe: The number is not the answer. When you abruptly remove the machinery of a demanding daily routine, you don't instantly find nirvana. You find a void. In a recent discussion on non-financial retirement readiness, former financial adviser Tyler Gardner framed this dilemma in his video on non-financial retirement needs around Self-Determination Theory, pioneered by psychologists Edward Deci and Richard Ryan. Deci and Ryan posited that human well-being rests on three basic psychological nutrients: competence, relatedness, and autonomy. For all its stress and bureaucratic friction, a demanding career supplies all three automatically. When you walk away from work, those three nutrients can vanish before your celebratory cake is even eaten. If you don't deliberately rebuild them, the fallout can be physiological. The Trap of "Mental Retirement" In aging literature, researchers study a sobering phenomenon bluntly termed "mental retirement" - the cognitive softening that occurs when a person ceases to be intellectually stretched. A decade-long study from Binghamton University examining China’s rural pension expansion revealed that early retirement significantly accelerated cognitive decline. Crucially, the researchers noted that the negative impact of reduced social and mental engagement outweighed the physical benefits of improved nutrition and sleep that the pension provided. Work forced us to solve problems under pressure. Sabbaticals and retirements do not. To counteract that loss, I had to create self-imposed challenges. During my grueling years in the classroom, exercise was the first thing pushed off the ledge. On leave, I reclaimed the time. I started chasing benchmarks for physical competence. Recently, I set out to regain a grueling standard: 10 continuous minutes on the Jacob’s Ladder. It was a benchmark an elite special operator had given me when I served as an Army JAG supporting special operations in Afghanistan in my late twenties. My first time back on the ladder? I barely completed one minute and staggered off it trembling and nauseous. But every week, I kept working at it - sometimes adding a few seconds and other times several minutes until I got to 10 minutes again this week. Crossing that threshold didn't merely burn calories; it restored a measurable gradient of physical competence and, with it, confidence. Whether it is conquering a brutal conditioning standard, learning a language, or mastering an instrument, we need something where we can objectively say: I am better at this today than I was last month. I will now find a new physical benchmark to pursue, while coming back occasionally to that masochistic Jacob's Ladder. The 40 Invisible People The second nutrient, relatedness, is where most folks get ambushed. When people contemplate retirement, they assume their social health depends on their spouse or a handful of close friends. But work provides something entirely different: a vast scaffolding of "weak ties." In a landmark 2014 study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science, researchers Gillian Sandstrom and Elizabeth Dunn found that daily subjective happiness and feelings of belonging rose noticeably on days when people had more peripheral interactions - even something as fleeting as a 20-second genuine exchange with a coffee barista. Broader public health research reinforces this with astonishing gravity. A massive meta-analysis led by Julianne Holt-Lunstad spanning over 300,000 individuals found that strong social integration increased survival likelihood by 50%. Remarkably, the mortality benefit was strongest for complex, varied social networks (the diverse web of people you bump into) rather than simple binary measures like living with someone. When I taught, I had hundreds of involuntary interactions before lunch: hallway greetings, banter with the front desk, coaching video sessions, cafeteria check-ins. On my sabbatical, I plunged into writing a historical thriller called The Blood Money Ledger set during the Vietnam War - a passion project rooted in my love of history and informed by my own military service. I was thrilled to find that the fiction flowed with unexpected ease. In fact, I am now leaning toward turning my main character, Tom Calder, into a series of books about morality, the law, and institutional rot. But writing is, by definition, solitary confinement. Left entirely unmanaged, isolation is insidious. To survive it, I had to engineer artificial friction:
  • I go to the gym at the exact same hour every day to see the familiar faces of regulars.
  • Once a week, a close friend and I meet at a local coffee shop; he reads while I hammer out words for the book. It’s quiet, parallel work, but the ambient presence makes the solitary act of writing sustainable.
  • I signed up for an evening furniture-making class to work with my hands alongside people I wouldn't otherwise meet - a skill I am going to start out terrible at and eventually become... less terrible at.
  • I took on a volunteer docent shift at the Austin History Center, trading archival stories with curious strangers.
None of these people are lifelong confidants - except my close friend who joins me for coffee. But together, they rebuild the 40 casual touchpoints work used to gift me for free. Anticipation Over Accumulation The final hazard is structural: time without seams. When we dream of retirement, we picture unstructured calendars and checking off items on an expansive bucket list. But behavioral psychology shows we often misunderstand how human satisfaction works. In a well-known 2010 study by Dutch researcher Jeroen Nawijn tracking over 1,500 adults, vacationers exhibited significantly higher happiness before their trips than non-vacationers. The post-trip happiness bump, however, was negligible and evaporated rapidly. Even though I haven't written for Humble Dollar much in the past several years, I have been a frequent lurker, and know that this is a topic we all understand well. The engine of joy is almost entirely anticipation, not completion. A bucket list should never be treated like a grocery list where the goal is an empty page. If you clear out your list with no new ambitions behind it, life goes flat. The real art is maintaining a continuous horizon of things you are eagerly anticipating: an upcoming course, a seasonal trip, an archival project, or a fresh manuscript draft. We are in the midst of using high school and college graduation presents as family adventures we take. For my son's graduation gift - he loves soccer - I took him and his soccer-obsessed sister to the World Cup. My other daughter, who is very much not soccer-obsessed, and my wife visited a spa together for significantly less money. Win-win. The Real Ledger The Monday morning after your final Friday, your spreadsheet will not ask how you are doing, provide an intellectual hill to climb, or hand you an unexpected laugh across a desk. The number is just the admission ticket that we too often obsess over. The actual show begins when you decide what will make your days count.  John Goodell was a deputy director of policy and general counsel at the Texas Pension Review Board. Currently an Army Reservist, he previously served 14 years on active duty before leaving to become the general counsel at the Texas Veterans Commission. John has spent much of his career working with public sector employees on tax, investment, estate planning and retirement issues. His biggest passion is spending time with his wife and kids. Check out John's earlier articles.
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Behavior

Jonathan and me

"Dick, I use High-Deductible Plan G (HD-G) as my Medigap policy. I love it, primarily because of the $34/mo. premium (saving about $100/mo. in comparison to regular Plan G) and paying only the 20% coinsurance out-of-pocket for Part B physician visits. The deductible on this plan acts more like a ceiling than a floor, as a group health plan's deductible would. My personal analysis shows that as long as I can stay out of the hospital no more than every 5 years or so, I'll come out ahead. No guarantees, of course, but a good risk IMO. I'm wondering why you don't also use an HD-G Medigap plan given your comment below, recopied here: "The reality is relatively few meet even meet their deductible in a given year and many for several years in a row, but they do pay higher premiums.""
- Dan Malone
Read more »

College

A Million Words to a Million Dollars?

"Oh dear Mike, that certainly pushed your buttons! He’s a decent young chap, just passionate. To be fair, it was an awful foul. He gave the opposition a goal kick instead of an obvious penalty, though the principle was also on the pitch to help the poor boy hobble off. Thanks for your childhood story and the good wishes for my grandson’s team. They struggle in school soccer as it’s a very small school, but his club team is flying high: eight wins from eight and top of the league! He’s a fast, physical right winger, and one of Ireland’s top teams has approached him about joining their youth academy. Congratulations on 50 years of refereeing, I'm sure you've seen all sorts of behaviour over the years!"
- Mark Crothers
Read more »

Taxes

Education Freedom Tax Credit

"Does the donor have any control over which school gets the money?"
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

Life Events

Choosing a CCRC (Life PlanCommunity)

"I wonder whether this might be more typical than CCRC advocates might imagine. I have a friend who had. to place her husband in a highly regarded memory care facility this past spring. Things seemed to be going well— until a couple of weeks ago, when he started running a temperature and his blood sugar level spiked— he’s also a diabetic. He was taken to the ER, and from there admitted to the hospital. After a few days, he was ready to be released from the hospital, but the doctors decided he needed a very high level of rehab— beyond that provided by the PT offered by the memory care. He is now at a rehab facility. When and if he’ll be able to go back to Memory care is up in the air."
- Marilyn Lavin
Read more »

From HumbleDollar Founder Jonathan Clements

Investing

My Investment Sin

I'LL CONCEDE IT'S HARD to justify—but I don’t believe it’s 100% unjustifiable. At issue: my strategy of overweighting stocks during big market declines. I…
Read more »

Investing

Investment Adviser Performance-Based Compensation

"Thanks for commenting Mark. I agree with your statement that most HD readers will avoid such a financial wolf product dressed in passive index clothing. Yet such funds continue to be created for wrong headed purposes and will unfortunately will be inappropriately sold. I am two chapters from finishing a 2021 book titled "Trillions" authored by Robin Wigglesworth, a long time finance correspondent for the Financial Times, which is a comprehensive history of the creation and growth of index funds ( both mutual and ETFs ). The book has reinforced my expectation that marrying performance based fees inside a "index" fund wrapper is just another bet to sell a trendy stock picking methodology for the financial benefit of the seller."
- William Perry
Read more »

Spending

Is an 18% Service Charge a TIP?

"We were recently in the UK for two weeks. During that entire time we never touched, nor even saw a British pound. Used the card for everything. BTW to those that are not aware of the “scam” you should choose the pay in local currency when given the option. The reason: If you choose to pay in your home currency, the merchant’s bank handles the conversion right at the point of sale. They set their own exchange rate instead of using the market rate."
- David Lancaster
Read more »

Taxes

Time to QCD

"Great minds/HD readers think alike. I too have been working on my list of charities for annual donations. I’m working on paring down the number and increasing the amounts given. I’m grateful to the schools I attended but I know that every year they have a new crop of potential donors graduating so now I’m leaning more towards the local organizations whose good work I see every day: my church, our little museum, the non-profit daycare, fire department, etc. This is my second year using QCDs. My IRA custodian provides me with a separate checkbook just for this purpose, like what Dick and the Connie do."
- Linda Grady
Read more »

Cars

Saved 85 Bucks

"My brother in law who is an experienced mechanic and race car driver says to let the turbo engines idle a little while before shutting them off. Too bad I forget more than remember to do so."
- R Quinn
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Manifesto

NO. 61: WHEN in doubt, we should invest long-term investment money in a target-date index fund. Most of us will struggle to design and maintain a portfolio that performs any better.

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NO. 121: HOME PRICES should, over the long run, rise at roughly the same rate as per-capita economic growth. Why? That’s a gauge of our ability to pay. If home prices rose significantly faster, they would become increasingly unaffordable for many folks, who would choose to rent instead—and that waning demand would likely depress property prices.

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WEIGHTING RETURNS. Typically, we see time-weighted returns, which reflect our gain over, say, 10 years, assuming we bought at the start of the period and didn't make further trades. A dollar-weighted return, by contrast, factors in when we bought and sold. If the market dipped during the 10 years and we invested more, that would boost our dollar-weighted return.

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WHEN MAKING a purchase, ponder not just its virtues, but also the maintenance, repairs and other hassles involved—because those’ll eventually loom large. Take the country home. It may initially seem like a great escape. But soon enough, you’ll be just as focused on the drive back and forth, and on the chores you’ll have to do once you’re there.

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NO. 61: WHEN in doubt, we should invest long-term investment money in a target-date index fund. Most of us will struggle to design and maintain a portfolio that performs any better.

Spotlight: College

Getting a later start: college vs. retirement, a growing conundrum

Our oldest child is age 55, - three children ages 14 and 12 (twins), our second is age 54 - three children ages 14, 13 and 10, our third age 51 - three children 18,17 and 13, and our fourth age 50 - two children…
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Getting a Break

STUDENT LOANS ARE a hot topic—one that’s fraught with confusion and complexity. Still, many borrowers should consider taking action this year. Want to get a better handle on what’s happening? Let’s start with three changes that have lately been in the spotlight: Federal student loan…
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How much to provide a college student monthly?

We’re reaching a milestone. Our oldest is going off to college and I’m curious how much parents provide their young adults on a monthly basis for food and incidentals. My son has worked consistently since age 15 but is only now finally getting the importance…
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College Conundrum

MY DAUGHTER IS MORE than halfway through her junior year of high school. College and career choices are hot topics in our household. My wife and I have a dilemma: Should we encourage our daughter to pursue a college degree that matches her passions—or nudge…
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A+ for Effort

WE HAVE A PROBLEM: We may have saved too much for our daughter’s college education. My wife and I started contributing aggressively to our daughter’s 529 college savings account as soon as she was born. For the first two years, we invested the full amount…
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Degrees of Doubt: When Higher Education Misses the Mark

I perhaps have a contrarian view of the utility of some higher education courses. This opinion has developed over the last 20 years or so, talking and interacting with younger staff I employed within my past business. Degree courses seem to have somewhat transformed into…
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Spotlight: Hedstrom

Going Neutral

ONE OF THE KEY skills I quickly learned as a new parent: how to curb some of my emotions. Take last night. We were enjoying our normal bedtime routine, including bath time, bottles and a few favorite books. Then I was vomited all over. Being vomited on was just another evening with our 16-month-old twins. If you dial up or…
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Going Soft

MORGAN HOUSEL’S NEW book, The Psychology of Money, covers a host of topics related to money and emotion. I was especially drawn to his notion that “how you behave is more important than what you know.” I’ve been a student of behavioral finance for some time and know this to be true academically—but it also made me think of…
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Site Seeing (Part IV)

WHEN I WAS IN graduate school, racking up my fair share of student debt at 6.8% interest, I knew I needed to get serious about financial education. I was studying finance, but had yet to encounter a personal finance class. It became my mission to filter through the endless websites and blogs to find what resonated with me. Here are…
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Finding Merit

THERE’S NO SINGLE, right way to legally crack the college admissions and financial aid systems. It’s up to teenagers and their parents to do the necessary work. Still, it helps to have a tour guide—which is what you get with The Price You Pay for College, the new book from New York Times financial journalist Ron Lieber. Lieber's book…
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Home Economics

YOU COULD SAY I have graduated summa cum laude from the school of hard knocks—for first-time homebuyers. From a financial standpoint, I did everything by the book. Over two years, my husband and I saved enough to put down 20% and cover closing costs. To ensure we didn’t buy more house than we could comfortably afford, we kept our purchase…
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Betting on Me

I BLEW OUT MY KNEE when I was 14. Doctors told me to concentrate on academics, as my days playing sports were over. I had no control over my injury, but I could control my response. I decided to focus on academics—and also return to the sport I loved. My new goal: Play soccer the following fall and make varsity…
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