One Day at a Time
Jiab Wasserman | Feb 18, 2021
JIM AND I RECENTLY moved from Granada, our first home in Spain, to Alicante, a city by the Mediterranean. The move gives us the opportunity to walk along the coast each day. A few weeks ago, we hiked a rugged coastal trail that’s part of a nature preserve, with an ancient Roman dock still partially visible. Along the coastline, you can also see how layers of sand have built up over the centuries, compacting together to form the breathtaking sandstone hills we enjoy today. It’s a reminder of how small acts can have a significant impact over time. I’ve always liked the expression, “In one day, you can’t do much, but over a long period of time you can accomplish a lot.” Small acts can yield a high—and even exponential—return, given enough time. Such returns aren’t just financial. Here are three small acts that, if performed regularly, can help us reap large rewards in the long run. 1. Save and invest every month. Thanks to the gender wealth gap, this is especially important for women. I started saving as soon as I got my first regular job. In 1993, I worked in a public library, where I earned slightly more than minimum wage. The job allowed me to contribute pretax dollars to a 457 plan. When I left the library, my balance was a bit under $2,000. Since then, I transferred it to an IRA and, the last time I checked, the balance was almost $10,000. In all my subsequent jobs in financial services, and as my income increased, I would max out my 401(k) and continue to save regardless of the economic situation, whether it be boom or bust. In fact, recessions and the accompanying stock market decline were the best time to invest, because the same dollar amount had…
Read more » Takes Skill
Jiab Wasserman | Apr 16, 2019
I WAS SELECTED IN 2015 for the “leadership pipeline program” at the major bank where I worked. It was a 10-month-long program for minority employees just below executive level. We were selected to learn all about corporate culture and what it took to advance to the next level. I felt honored to be among such talented and promising employees. Participants were from various departments from across the U.S.—technology, risk management, operations, compliance, human resources, retail banking, commercial lending and investments. The program opened with a one-week in-person training session at the bank’s corporate headquarters in Charlotte, North Carolina, followed by monthly meetings via video conferencing and online courses. Each participant was assigned a mentor from the executive level. The people I met in the program were diverse in terms of experience, education and age. We were all united, however, in wanting to learn the skills necessary to move up the corporate ladder. Rather than particular job skills, however, a major emphasis of the program was networking. “It’s not what you know but who you know.” Over and over, making the right connections was emphasized. The bank encouraged us to join multiple affinity groups (Asian, veteran, Latino, Native American, women, LGBT, African American and so on), to socialize and connect across divisions and departments, and to reach out to executives. In other words, we needed to promote ourselves if we wanted to move up to the next level. The emphasis on self-promotion as a career strategy never quite sat right with me. Partly, it’s because I’m an introvert. But mostly, I saw a problem with focusing so much on building a network. I always thought that the time and energy spent maintaining these relationships and joining the many affinity groups would, instead, be better spent learning new skills. And there’s a big…
Read more » Buen Camino
Jiab Wasserman | Apr 30, 2019
ON APRIL 3, MY HUSBAND Jim and I were among 262 pilgrims who made our way into Santiago de Compostela to receive an official pilgrim’s certificate for completing the required distance along one of the famous El Camino’s several routes—the most popular of which is some 500 miles. We were now certified peregrinos, or pilgrims. Because it was early in the season, ours was one of the slow days for Camino completion. Last August, 2,000 certificates per day were issued. Walking El Camino is gaining in popularity not just with Spaniards, but also with folks from around the world. In 2018, there were 327,328 certificates issued, compared to just 2,491 in 1986. This begs the question: Why do people commit themselves to such an arduous walk, which can take weeks to complete? In an age that provides convenience, comfort, speed and efficiency, thousands from around the globe walk hundreds of miles, enduring considerable physical demands, long periods of solitude, and deprivation from most modern comforts and conveniences. I can’t answer that question for all pilgrims. But I can honestly say that it was one of the most memorable experiences of my life. The certificate at the end was, of course, nice to receive, but that was the least of it. In The Pilgrimage, Paulo Coelho wrote, “It is the road that teaches us the best way to get there, and the road enriches us as we walk its length.” El Camino enriched me in three ways: I had the feeling of being fully present. I recently retired after working more than 25 years in the business world, where I had to be simultaneously mindful of the past, the current situation and the future. The simple act of walking, putting one foot in front of the other for mile after mile, hour after hour, brought…
Read more » Time Not Well Spent
Jiab Wasserman | Jul 13, 2021
MY RELATIONSHIP WITH money is complicated. I want to get the best value for our dollars, so I spend a lot of time comparison shopping. Other people hunt for bargains. I go on long safaris. My frugality and comparison shopping have served Jim and me well. In our double-income household, we managed to save 50% of our combined pay—basically living on one income and saving the rest. That, coupled with some lucky breaks, propelled us to early retirement. Going from saving for retirement to spending in retirement, however, brings with it a shift in mindset. You become less focused on getting the most from your dollars—and more focused on getting the most from your time. Yes, you still want to save money, but you need to balance that against the time and effort involved. That brings me to our retirement income plan. We have five years of living expenses in cash investments, so we can sleep at night without worrying about short-term stock market performance. But cash, of course, pays almost nothing these days, so I’m always looking for the best deal I can. Until recently, I conducted those searches from Spain, where we spent the first three years of our retirement until our recent move back to Dallas. To open new financial accounts in the U.S., we needed a U.S. address. To that end, like many expats, we rented a virtual mailbox. That gave us a physical address in the U.S., plus 24/7 access to our mail, all from the convenience of a laptop or smartphone. (This is different from a P.O. box from the postal service.) In the past few years, using our virtual mailbox address, I opened two new travel credit cards in the U.S. to earn mileage. That gave us enough promotional airline points to pay…
Read more » Anchors Aweigh
Jiab Wasserman | Sep 7, 2022
THE DALLAS HOUSING market has recently shown signs of slowing. In our townhome community, I’ve noticed that houses are sitting unsold for longer. Until recently, any place on the market for more than seven days was considered unusually long. Two weeks ago, we became interested in buying a two bedroom, two bath townhome on our street as a rental property. It was listed at $375,000. Upon a closer look, however, we found the following: The property hasn’t been upgraded since 1988. We also found several structural problems, including a major foundation crack that seemed to cut across the front room. The roof, heating and cooling system, and hot water heater all needed replacing. The county tax appraised value is $305,000, which is based on the assumption the house is in average condition and hence doesn’t factor in the structural problems and the lack of upkeep and updating. That $305,000 works out to $188 per square foot, significantly below the list price of $230 per square foot. Based on the condition and the expected repairs, we made an offer of $280,000, or $95,000 lower than the list price. Yes, that was a big difference. But considering all the repairs needed and the cooling housing market, we thought it fair. The seller countered with $359,000. We walked away. It struck me that this was a classic example of anchoring bias—the inordinate influence of the first piece of information encountered. With a home sale, the initial price is typically seen as an anchoring point, whether that price is reasonable or not. I suspect the owner set the selling price based on market conditions in early spring, and then failed to adjust the price despite sharply higher mortgage rates and a recent high cancellation rate for home-sale contracts. Even our own realtor thought our…
Read more » Trust Betrayed
Jiab Wasserman | Nov 16, 2021
BEFORE I RETIRED, I was a credit risk manager. I had to take compliance courses annually. One course focused on financial abuse, especially of the elderly. I learned that the most common perpetrators are not strangers, but family members, friends and caregivers who take advantage of too-trusting seniors. But it’s one thing to know this theoretically—and quite another to find out it’s happening in your own family. I previously wrote about now both my late father and his close friend were victims of financial abuse. After we discovered what was happening, I thought my three siblings and I had straightened out the family finances. My youngest brother and I live in the U.S., while my parents were in Thailand. We all agreed that my two middle brothers, who live in Bangkok, should be co-guardians of my parents and their finances. My father was dying of Parkinson’s and my mother was deteriorating mentally and physically, so it made sense to let my brothers have complete control. We split my parents’ money, enough to last the rest of their lives, between my two brothers in 2019. We had regular Zoom calls to discuss my parents’ physical condition and financial situation. One of my brothers sent us an accounting every quarter, while the other didn’t. When, in early 2020, we finally confronted the brother who hadn’t provided any sort of accounting, he admitted that the money he oversaw was gone. We consulted an attorney and were advised that we could go to the police to have him arrested. In the end, we decided against it for my mom’s sake. It would have devastated her. My other brother still has the other half of my parents’ money in his care, which should be enough for my mom, now that my father has passed. Losing my…
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